I gave this guy at work my # so he could call me. He never did, which is fine. It has been a month since that happened, but now he is constantly talking to me and other people arround me are saying that he is obviously interested. My ? is this should I bring up the fact that he never called me and ask him out again or should I just let him come to me when he is ready. I can't stand these mixed signals.
2006-06-16 08:25:25 · 19 answers · asked by TR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has your number. The metaphorical ball is in his court.
2006-06-16 08:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by write_something_happy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, It is very hard to figure out what's going on unless you ask. Maybe he lost your number? Wait untill he comes to you to talk again - let him talk a little bit & then ask why he didn't call. If he wants to talk to at work , he should want to talk to you at home too. No matter what a guy tells you - you have to be suspicious because guys will lie to you to get what they want. Believe me I know.... Best of luck to you.
2006-06-16 15:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to play mind games and it stinks. You should ask why he didnt call because that would concern me. But if things are going good and hes showing the interest, forget about the past and just go with the flow.
2006-06-16 15:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the fact that he never called you - If you like him, go after him. Or tell him something funny like, "Oh, since you never called me, how about giving me your phone number so I can call you!" He's obviously interested in you. Maybe he's just phobic about the phone, or having a two-way conversation with you.
2006-06-16 15:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cão Bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then move on. He's not going to close off his playing field, and if he was really interested in you, he would have already called. He's toying with you and you're falling for it. Be with someone who appreciates you, wants to spend time with you and is not playing with your emotions. I can tell you're young. Don't waste your time with this guy. I can tell you, he's looking out for himself and looking for sex and is immature.The problem that exists between both sexes is that we always want what we can't have and I think this is part of your infatuation with this guy. Its killing you that he's not calling you and hasn't asked you out for a date. Set your ego aside and put your energy on someone who really cares about you. Why bother putting yourself through the pain you are going to go through if you do get together with him. Been there, done that, its a waste of time.
2006-06-16 15:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him come to you when he is ready. At first you gave him your number a month ago and he didn't call, but now he is slowly trying to get to know you better. It's great that he is, so let him slowly come to you it'll deffinltey be worth it.
2006-06-16 15:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he lost your #! LOL. Why wait around on him? Why not make a move. I think it's old fashioned for women to always wait for the guy to make the first move. Just ask him why he never called.
2006-06-16 15:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and ask him why he never called and let him know how you feel about him not calling and see if he wants a relationship with you or not.
2006-06-16 15:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Derrick H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You should let him stew and wait until he finally asks you. You already put the ball in his court, and he has decided to drop it, so let him look like a coward who can't follow through.
2006-06-16 15:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a night out with some girlfriends. Tell him where and when. See if he shows. Good luck!
2006-06-16 15:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your Time if he's to whimpy to call, just go about with your daily activities and who knows maybe someday he'll have the balls to call you.
2006-06-16 15:30:00 · answer #11 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋