and u feel a little disappointed and sad u think about ur ex???is this normal??? even though u know ur x is just that....and this new person is showing good traits...in other words the bad things the x did to me are aftecting my new relation in my head....what can i do?
2006-06-16 08:02:47 · 5 answers · asked by know it all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your all grrrrreat...thank u, so much, for ur time and ur oppinion, ur all right, this is a tie one
2006-06-17 12:46:04 · update #1
It happens to the best of us. If you KNOW the old relationship will never work, ya gotta more on. It's really hard to walk forward if you keep staring over your shoulder.
2006-06-16 08:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by diasia9622 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be alone!! Don't replace an old relationship with a new one. You aren't really being fair to the person you are with if you are not over your ex. I am a strong believer in taking a hiatus between relationships. Then you can have the time to figure out what went wrong in your past one and how not to repeat it.
2006-06-16 15:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal ! I still think about my ex and that was 20 yrs ago. YOU CAN'T FORGET THE GOOD TIMES. Do what i did, get two pieces of paper write all the good things on one and all the bad things on the other THEN DECIDE WHERE YOU ARE BETTER OFF , it's not easy iv'e been there !!
2006-06-16 15:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on the present and what is good in the current relationship. Try not to dwell on the past as it will likely affect your current situation.
2006-06-16 15:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop stressing out somuch and just enjoy the new guy and get to know him and stop worrying about the jerks from the past.
2006-06-16 15:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by guerisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋