Well, I have held down relationships before and I had H*** with it because when it was spose to be 50/50...I was the one with it all on my shoulders...Then I went single and celebate for 2 years...Had a good job and a raise and a promotion on the way...I was a pen pal to this soldier and that was all I wanted it to be and then something made me just fall for him...IDK what it was but it was nice...
Then I gave him a chance...I took on his past, present, and future...Now and I did have before my suspicions about him...I think he is trickin' with his ex who used him for money and f'ed up his credit and I have been here helping him restore his life and help him...
I am sooo confused right now...His mom has been acting funny lately and so has he...Like he never wanted me...And all of it was lies...I know no one can really help me but I still have this pulling at my brain and my heart...Is he straying?...Did they have a child?...Are they getting back together?...What have I done?
2006-06-16 07:53:11 · 3 answers · asked by *Panda* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey...This is to mithril...I am spoiled...It's not that I don't wanna do those things...I will do them...He enjoys doing them...That is the way he is...My fairytale is my reality...I live life and in the most complex of ways...I am not that spoiled...Call my im...
2006-06-17 22:15:17 · update #1
some fairytale......I'd go nuts if I didn't drive. Like to cook, too. Laundry? It's not like we have to cart it down to the river and bang on rocks. Just throw it in the machine with some soap and shove it in the dyer when it's done. Not a party, but neither is your fairytale.
Spoiled, eh? That's no excuse for running around on you, if he is. Ask him upfront. Ask ex. Ask mom. If they're getting back together, it'll come out eventually. Sooner or later she's bound to get tired of playing second fiddle to you and demand he leaves you, if that's the case. She could be stringing him along and wants her meal ticket back. And if he's stupid enough for that, let him.
But give him the chance to come clean. Tell him you've noticed things, and if he wants out, let him go. You're pretty enough to get someone else who can treat you right.
But you might want to rethink the no cooking, driving, or laundry thing. Those aren't hard things, y'know. Maybe he's starting to feel like a servant.....
Good luck!
2006-06-17 22:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl your instincts about these things are usually right. By the way, relationships are not 50/50 they are 100/100.
2006-06-16 14:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful because that could be happening to you? If you have that GUT feeling then it is true. Always Alwasy follow ur gut feeling. Believe me I know
2006-06-16 14:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Davenport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋