My boyfriend and I are very interested in one another and have sexual feeling toward one another too. I would like to know how long should I wait to have sex with him?
Please give me a set time such as 1 month and not the typical wait til your ready.
How long do dudes think a girl should wait to have sex when they are really interested in the girl and would like to have a long comitted relationship?
2006-06-16 07:25:29 · 35 answers · asked by Knowledge is Power 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex. Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).
P.S. Please, please respect yourself. Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.
2006-06-16 07:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by stephete 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your are interested in a long commited relationship, what is the rush. Belive it or not, when the time is right for you both, it will happen on its own and it will be more rememberable then making an appointment. I dated this girl, and we had made plans to have sex for the first time. It just ruined it all the way. It wasn't natural. It seemed kinda forced and awkward.
But since that is not what you want to hear. When I was around 18 and dating. If I was seeing a women and we did not have relations within 2 to 4 weeks, I would move on. That was just a general rule of thumb. Some of the women I dated I really liked and have waited up to 3 months. So I guess it just depends on the individual and how long you are willing to wait. My present girlfriend, We had sex on the second date. and have been together now for 17 years this June. If you decide to go foward, Just be safe and use protection. Back when I dated, SEX was safe and GUNS were dangerous. Jack
2006-06-16 07:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by JACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive in the three month rule.it give u time 2 know whether or not he is worth sleeping with or if he is just another jerk.any guy that cannot abide by this rule I have stayed away from because then I know he is not interested in me,he is interested n getting n my pants.now my daughters have a 1 year rule,I find that drastic but hell it works 4 them they r all in long standing relationships of over 2 years. the last one is 16 and just starting 2 date,she does not feel she is ready 4 sex so she will have 2 deside that when the time comes.
2006-06-16 07:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would like to have long term relationship???
Then first exchange your feelings and emotions. These should supress your sexual feelings. In such case you can have some assurance that the relation will last long. Dont worry about sex, time comes when you both will be automatically in to that with out your knowledge(That is the time)
2006-06-16 07:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Praveen P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, you aren't ready to have sex. If you are just looking for somebody to tell you it is okay, you are going to find it eventually, you are asking everyone on the planet. Why would you ask total strangers about such a personal decision.
Sex makes babies. The only 100% effective method of birth control is abstinence. If you aren't ready to have a baby, you aren't ready for sex yet.
The bottom line is that the answer to your question is different for everybody. Only you can answer it for yourself.
2006-06-16 07:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer this question for you!
The truth is, you really should wait until you are married if you want a definitive answer. Otherwise, you really do need to wait "until you are ready" which is not what you want to hear. Without a ring on your finger it really doesn't matter if you wait three weeks or three months. It's the same amount of risk.
2006-06-16 07:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should Not give in or be enticed by intimacy Almost all Women regret who they had their first time with. and it is to soon for you to say you love him or think this is the one. Dont give in. Know that once you take a covenant before God You will know You were ment to be with him. forgive my fancy words Im saying Once you marry you will know if you truly Love him and if he is the one. do what you must but remember that You have been warned, and Men drive on converous thinking, they have more or the sex hermoune then Women do so they will alot of times Lust more then Women
2006-06-16 07:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship. Some people can have sex the 1st time they meet and the relationship works. Some have to have three months or so. I would say about a month and a half on average. Good Luck.
2006-06-16 07:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if this bf of yours is of age (18) or older then i think its a mutual thing, i know when i am with a woman a short time after we are together (say a week) whether or not i have deep feelings for her or not, but everyone is different. the question you need to ask your bf is how does he really feel the relationship is going? does he feel like he might want to marry you someday? or is he just liking to be with you. if however hes not 18 then id say unless you want to go to jail then id say wait until hes 18
2006-06-16 07:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by harmonyandericjrburns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set amount of months. If you want to do it, the do it. If you have certain values, such as waiting till marriage, then wait. You don't have to do it in a certain amount of time.
2006-06-16 07:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u honor ur body and urself u would wait until u r married not tryna b religious or nuthin but if u guys r comitted den yall nedd 2 wait i no u dont want nuthin bad happenen 2 u cuz thres alot of things that can result after having sex
2006-06-16 07:30:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋