i ama 7.5 months preggers and im gunna be divorced in 5 days. i want to know when it is the best time to get re married.
2006-06-16 07:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i have been with my b/f for 18 months and we love each other dearly. i cant imagine my life with out him in it. hes been my best friend for 6 years and there is nothing that i wouldnt do for him. i left my marriage to be with him.
2006-06-16 07:20:07 · update #1
he is a wonder father figure to my 8 yo son. my kid adores him and sasys to marry tomorrow.
2006-06-16 07:21:20 · update #2
The best time to get married will be when you feel in your heart you are ready for that step again. Don't let being pregnant be the deciding factor. I went thorugh this exact situation as you. I was seperated from my husband for a year, I met someone else, I got pregnant, he wouldn't divorce me. When I finally got him to agree to a divorce my boyfriend and I decided to wait a little while to get married. Our daughter is now 2 and we are happy to have waited. Marrying someone is a big step, you should wait until you know for certain that this one has a real posibility of lasting. And that it isn't just that "you think" it COULD last. You have a child to think about now and divorce can be brutal. And besides this is the 21st century and you are not a 1950's housewife. It is better to be certain and avoid the hassle and pain it could cause you because you made a rash decision based on your physical condition.
Goodluck!
2006-06-16 07:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by jennanna 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Any time after next Wednesday would be good.
Other than that it kind of depends on your wedding plans. If your main goal is to have the baby born to married parents and the details of the wedding aren't important, asap.
If you're OK with not being married to the dad when the baby arrives (he can still claim paternity) and want to make a big deal of the wedding, you may want to wait a few months until the baby is born and life settles down.
Either way, good luck.
2006-06-16 15:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by sdc_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends. Do you love this guy? Dont ever marry because of a child. Sounds like you may have rushed into marriage already and should not make the same mistake again. Make sure you are ready to a lifetime commitment before doing it. Learn from your mistakes!!
2006-06-16 14:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by metaluvr2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you deff. need to wait sometime before you marry your BF... You just got out of a marriage and you dont wanna rush into another one. Yes i understand that you both love each other but wait until after you have your baby... because your baby will either make you or break you so just wait a couple years
2006-06-16 14:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Krystle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married in 6 days.
2006-06-16 14:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Roseknows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say take some time to focus on yourself and your upcoming birth. Are you living together? Are you already a family?
I've seen some pregnant brides and some weddings after the birth of their child. My cousin got married when their baby was 4 months old, and it was the sweetest service with them getting their baby blessed and confirmed after they got married.
2006-06-16 15:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to marry him right now or at all? You can still have a family together with out marriage. Get to really know each other first.
2006-06-16 14:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime before the birth of the baby
2006-06-16 14:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you got pregnant by him. But since it's too late for that, get married right away.
2006-06-16 14:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by irishharpist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4:00 pm
2006-06-16 14:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by flapstick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋