why is it that wen u get outta relationship women always say they wanna just be friends we as men really know they dont want to or say that just to get ur hopes up wats wit women there so confussing !!!!
2006-06-16 06:54:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there again.. I wanted to clear up something here. It is not true that girls always wanted to be friends with guys after breaking up moments. Its the GUYS who starts that. They do not want to look or think that they are not a good guy or lousy guy in front of his male freinds or new interest of girls in large. They do not want to feel bruised with their EGO in looking stupid that the girls dumped on them. Thats why the GUYS prefers to be freinds so they can move on easily without any Dramas or ugly mess from the relationship that is his fault for not working it out properly.
I remembered from my past relationship with my EX boyfriend. I was so fed up with him becz he always listens to ppl instead of me. I decided to end up the relationship with him . he was crying and begging me to stay as freinds .. He was A LOUSY boyfriend for me.. Why do i need to be his freind for? He didnt like the idea that we are no LONGER seeing or talking to eachother in front of his friends. He doesnt want to look stupid in front of my Single girlfriends.. I said to myself FOOKA him ... He deserves that to learn from this lesson and why he put me throught this mess for nothing . He thinks it was nothing wrong to listen to ppl instead of me .. I told him that i am YOUR GIRLFRIEND, NOT SO CALLED FRIENDS. He took that hard to understand me . He begged me to stil be friends and have fun .. maybe pleasures on the side . So why do i need to be his freind for ??? I found a better guy than he is .. and i am engaged to him .. Thnk god for him to be able to give me the happiness that i need and so on .. SO u can see from this expereince. Its GUYS, not Girls that wants to be freinds.. Trust me on this one, Mr. Imfamous
2006-06-17 06:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know wich women u being with....if I WANNA BE wit in a relationship..I keep it to myself....
Anyway for the record, when someone talks listen to them and that will tell u more about the person, get ur own conclusion and take a decicion on what u want, trust me the more they talk, shout or scream the less in control they are....so just dont worry listen as if ur listen to the rain and whatch their actions....those speak louder than words....
plus that usually women we rather start easy with guys some of us....and yes we meant the friend thing....but if u like her enough ur the only one who can change her mind...is like saying IM NOT AN EASY LOVER...wich means youll have to do better than that, cause some women are drive by intellect more than the emotional......some probably the kind that u know are only bullshitting....repeating what they heard from another girlfriend and try to be something there not..
men do the same thing....
2006-06-16 07:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong! I dumped my b/f and he wanted to be friends with me. He couldnt even let me go! Well we stayed friends for a while, but I still ended it anyways.
2006-06-16 06:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by sicilygal2581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think we don't mean it?
women are not as fickle as you think! no point leaving one relationship and starting another right away is there? where is the fairness in that?
the way we act is not confusing, it's a mature and rational approach to dating again.................so there!
2006-06-16 06:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was wondering the same thing.
2006-06-16 06:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋