in our Holy Book Bible to have the sexual intercours with a girl or a
lady, before to get married with?
2006-06-16 06:48:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Try to make yourself more clear. In the King James version of the Christian Holy Bible it is against the rules to have sex or intercourse before marriage. Besides you could get all kinds of nasty diseases from pre-marrital sex. Do you really want to go to your family doctor and say I have this nasty discharge coming out of my bleep? Wait until your married. You could also, get the girl pregnant or with child. If you love each other you can wait. It'll be all the better for you both.
2006-06-16 06:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The last thing I would want to do is compromise your morals and values, or contridict your upbringing regarding your level of self respect. That being said, the idea of a virgin on the wedding night is really a dream in today's society. However, if you can resist the temptations and honor your values and your self respect until marriage, that would be an awesome thing.
You really have to show to yourself and prove that you have the self respect that will not be compromised by society's view on pre-marital sex. You have to be strong, do not let anyone intimidate you, or otherwise move you to do something that you are not prepared to do. Sex is a very normal part of life, it is not a bad thing, or something to be ashamed of. It is however, not something that should be reduced to a mere "thing". It is important that you experience sex the first time as something meaningful, something that promotes your physical health and emotional well being. Unfortunatley, in today's society, sex is used as a tool of sorts and that reduces it's meaning and that is very sad.
I can't say that you would go to hell for having sex before marriage in the litteral sense, but it can, if done for all the wrong reasons cause you an "emotional hell" on earth. The feeling of low self esteem, lack of self respect, the fear of disease and preganacy can reduce something beautiful to nothingness if done for the wrong reasons and at the wrong time in your life.
The essence of this answer is to hold true to yourself, do not let anyone take away your self respect, your integrity, your morals and values. To have sex before marriage is a choice you will someday have to make, but in doing so, do not just consider the "trend" the peer pressure, or what you "think" the other person wants from you. Think about only what you want for yourself, and how it will affect you. When the time is right, you will know, don't let anyone push you into this before you are ready. You just may be part of the "rare breed" and hold onto your virginity until marriage and frankly, that is something to be very, very proud of.
I trust that you will make a good decision...
2006-06-16 13:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No per New American Bible (NAB): Romans 7:7 "you shall not covet"; Exodus 20:14 "Shall not commit adultry; Exodus 20:17 "you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, female slave". Then there is a church's interpretation of these verses. Don't forget State Penal Laws------I consider a girl to be under 18 years of age----to have sexual intercourse is Statutory Rape--jail time varies by the States-----A lady I consider between 18 and 21 years of age. The Holy Bible is not specific about ages, yet her father is about a male having intercourse with his daughter and not being married---no matter her age. When the father dies and she has brothers---watch your back
2006-06-16 14:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by fran t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Christian Bible does not permit sex before marriage. Mainly because of the consequesnces. If a baby was born into a single parent family in those days they would be destitute all their lives. That was before the pill was invented and condoms.
2006-06-16 13:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by anouska1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far a Catholic religion goes and i think it is the same for a lot of the mainstream religions that you can't sleep with a single person before you are married. That is now why we keep the spead of aids and sexual dieases going around many people don't care anymore. SAD!!
2006-06-16 13:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Silly2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the Bible, it is forbidden.
- 16 yo Pagan
2006-06-16 13:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Myrkr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the Bible your not suppose to. Your suppose to wait till your married.
2006-06-16 13:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by sicilygal2581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible, intercourse should be saved for marriage. When you get married, you and your partner become "one". Intercourse is the symbolism of this union.
2006-06-16 13:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by beautyforall@marykay.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read more closely, No adultery, fornication (unmarried sex), or like unto it. They even cover making out ( like unto it). The answer is a definite NO.
2006-06-16 13:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....not everyone is against it though.
I'm having sex with my boyfriend who I live with before we are married and I seriously don't think I'm going to Hell.
I mean my mom waited. Good for her. Good for all who wait. I just didn't. lol.
2006-06-16 13:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tracy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋