This guy I know has flirted with me sometimes, was mean a couple of times. But now he's been really nice to me lately. But just in a really friendly way not flirty. Sometimes he makes eye contact and sometimes he doesn't even acknowlege I'm there. He's 23 and I'm 33 do you think this could have something to do with it? I feel he's giving me mixed signals but maybe he just likes me as a friend.
2006-06-16 06:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys who are secure and confident in themselves will ask out girls they are truely attracted too. So the answer is not, definitely, yes. If he hasn't asked you out, he may just want to be your friend but, more likely, he might really be interested in you but not sure enough of himself to ask you out. If he wants too but doesn't, then you don't want him anyway. He sounds afraid, confused and frustrated to me because he is sending you mixed signals. This would suggest that he want's to ask you out but doesn't know how to, or is afraid of rejection. He probably is intimidated by your age. Sounds like an infatuation and he's trying different approaches to feel out the best way to grab your attention. I could be wrong but he doesn't sound very mature or experienced.
2006-06-16 07:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Scott R 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... some guys are real shy and like the woman to make the first move. But keep in mind he's a whole ten years younger than you. i don't know if that would have much to do with it but... yeah. Also, the eye-contact thing... that doesn't always men he's into you... sorry if you were hoping he was but i'm really not sure. i'd say wait just a little longer and if you still don't know just flat-out ask him. Hope this helps!
2006-06-16 13:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by kandee-kane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly I think that age is nothing but a number. And the whole "sometimes nice sometimes mean thing" is pretty much a sure sign that he is just playing with your emotions, or maybe since he is so young still, he dosnt really know how to approach you. Sometimes guys think that being friendly is being flirty.
I would say approach him, but be cautious about everything, go after him and find out if he really likes you!!
2006-06-16 13:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by firemedicdixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The eye contact is important it represents interest.Were you showing off your attributes ? If you are interested in him check him out. See if he is a player or a Great guy who has been used by another female. Find out his interests if you two have common interests invite him to go to an event you both share an interest in ? Dont be bashful, he might be? Remember the guy worth crying over would never make you cry ...Rick
2006-06-16 16:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rick A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things spring to mind here.....................
1- he's being obvious but not too obvious about liking you....ie.....flirting and being nice....or
2- he was being flirty and nice to get into your pants! and because you didn't play ball, he's acting like you don't exist.
there are some men out there who only want what they can get. either way, don't make any moves. believe me, if he really likes you he will get tired of waiting for you to make a move and he'll ask you out.
2006-06-16 13:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't ask you out, and you would like to go out with him, why don't you ask him out? His response would tell you if he's interested in you or not.
Best of luck to you!
2006-06-16 13:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia_1971 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is NO garuntee he will ask you out if he likes you, perhaps sometime when you are hanging out together, you should kiss him, or if your too nervous to do that, just ask him out to dinner or something.
2006-06-16 13:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by romanticide91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋