i'll just say that bye my age most have already done it. I've asked my mom but she's to busy drinking to care, i have no other resorces, Plezz! I don't want to ask my boyfriend cause he's all ready and prepared and stuff!
2006-06-16 06:30:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Now i know i should wait untill marrige but he's gonna ask me to marry him after we do it!! I know for sure!!! i need areal answer not just wait till marrige, i klnow !!!
2006-06-16 06:32:15 · update #1
what the H*LL!!! as i said i'm not to young!!! i'm over 18!!!1 i won't reveal my age for security reasons but I really just don't know!! you all are gving me dope answers!!! REALL ANSWERS!!!!! NOW!!!
2006-06-16 06:36:30 · update #2
SHUT UP!!!!! I'M NOT TO YOUNG!!1 OVER 18!!!
2006-06-16 06:39:14 · update #3
guy + girl. Guy takes penis - girl spreads legs. Guy takes penis and puts in girls vagina and moves it in and out.
I absolutely don't agree with anyone being too young to ask a question. You don't need to lie and say you are older, be comfortable with your age because sex is not something to be ashamed of. It is natural and it is wonderful. Something I would suggest before having sex though is taking a good look at your vagina with a mirror and play with it. Get to know yourself before you share yourself.
2006-06-16 10:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by mico_mami 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Ok this is a very tricky topic, yes most have done it at a very early age, but you need to know if you are ready, and second don't assume that just because you will have sex that you boyfriend is going to marry you. that isn't always true, because sometimes guys can easily go looking for another woman to nail. sorry for my expression this is true for a lot, but not for all. as for having sex, you want to have condoms, don't ever have sex without it, because besides what happens if your man turns into a ahole, or leaves, and then you are stuck with a child. play it safe, now all you have to do is be in the mood, and the course will take its path, but if you really want to know rent a porno movie and that will show you a little more than what you know, what you see is not how it always be, it is just an insight of what could be expected, sex might not be all that great in the beginning, but it will eventually get better. Just go with the flow ok, don't rush it, take your time... well I hope that this help good luck, and don't do things that you don't want to do.
2006-06-16 13:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DO sound young! Alright, I shouldn't have pointed that out. Please don't go to the extreme of marrying your boyfriend simply because you have intercourse with him (because that is what it is when you "lie down and spread your legs"). Having sex is a lovely, pleasurable experience between a two people where BOTH are having a good time. Your boyfriend might know everything about what gives him pleasure since most guys do, but I'm betting he knows little about how to create that feeling in you. And, you might feel uncomfortable with all the sexual attention you will be getting in your first sexual contacts. A good sexual partner will NEVER push you beyond what you are comfortable doing. Do you know why? It's because you'll start to feel anxious and then having sex won't be pleasurable.
2006-06-16 13:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by mhansonart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i don't think he'll marry you after sex but that's just me and the losers i watched my sisters date.
I say fiddle around with your own body so you know what you like and don't buy rocks instead of lemons.
http://www.babeland.com
Here they have utilities you can use and they also have good links to other educational sites.
Also check the library, the oldest of the books is Kama Sutra.
But there are loads of books about orgasmic living, tantric sex and kundalini yoga.
Fetishes are the next chapter.
The rest is just acting up on what feels good and we all just mess around a bit.
P.S. the first time doesn't need to be really painful but it can be rather uncomfortable.
And don't forget to use protection.
One time is enough to get pregnant or an STD.
And some STD's can lead to infertility, insanity or death.
2006-06-16 13:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by woekkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls hold on to it,do not just give away your first time just like that.Although i'm a guy,but i can tell you that after you give off,sooner or later,your bf will also leave you after he had get what he want and tired of it.If a guy really love a gal,he would not suggest and pressure sex from a gal and will respect whatever reason the gal give.So whether your bf is one of those,you should know.......
YOU WILL GET TO ENJOY ONE DAY,BUT WHY MAKE IT HAPPEN SO FAST WHEN YOU ARE NOT SURE OF YOUR OWN FUTURE HALF.
2006-06-16 14:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Naturguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im really sorry that your mom drinks (mine does too) but you really are too young if u have to ask, and bye the way u shouldnt assume that he will ask u to marry him after you do it with him because some boys just do it and then blow u off so i would wait until u get a ring and a vow or six, i hope that u wait and take my advice, because even though i dont know u i still care about u and all girls who are thinking about sex before marriage so please think before u do something that u will regret
2006-06-16 13:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your a virgin and that you need him to instruct you. If he loves you and knows you at all he wont care. You should NEVER think that just because you have sex with him he will marry you. In most cases this is not the result. Make sure you are ready before you do anything.
2006-06-16 13:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to ask you to marry him after you do it....??!! That is the biggest whopper i have EVER heard.
And if you can't ask your boyfriend about sex then you definately shouldn't be doing it with him. It's the most intimate thing you will ever do and you need to be with someone you trust absolutely.
Please have look at the links below. And DON'T be pressured into anything you aren't comfortable with, no matter what pathetic promises anyone gives you! I'm sorry you don't get much support at home, but it makes it even more important that you only have other people in your life who support you and help you and you look after YOURSELF.
2006-06-16 13:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the answers are not to your liking,cease asking them. Sex is different to everybody. You need to have sex in order to know what it is. You should never give up any sex to any man until you are married. You seem to want to know the facts of sex without you having to do it first. Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzzzzz! Stop dwelling on it and get on with your life!!!!
2006-06-16 14:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by wolftatx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he will marry you after you have sex with him, you are stupid....Don't have sex with your boyfriend!!! You don't know enough about life and people to make this important a decision. You will never regret waiting to have sex, but you may spend the rest of your life regretting not having waited........
2006-06-16 13:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by simmtalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him take the lead, if he's 'already prepared and stuff,' you are probably less than 18 tho so I can't get explicit here. But let him show you how to do it. Or you can try to rent a porn movie....
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-06-16 13:38:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋