He told me it won't make any difference that he only loves me. don't know what to do. Help Me!!!
2006-06-16 06:30:06 · 24 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it! it will mess up the relationship and jealousy will become between you both!
2006-06-16 06:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by oo0_krissy_0oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so your boyfriend loves you, and I believe that. I also believe he wants a threesome. This is one of his fantasies. The question is... Do you have any fantasies that you might enjoy having him help fulfill for you also? Many people are so afraid to let their innermost desires be known, even if it's with their significant other, because they fear these fantasies would either not be accepted (taboo), or because they may not even get help living them out. By exchanging your fantasies with him, maybe you can both make one come true for each other?
Either way, I would hope he's not EXPECTING you to act on this. Ultimately it's your choice to make. The bottom line is he's with you, and not with someone else. He's just wanting to add some spice.
Also, if you choose to go through with this, be cautious, and explain your worries to him in advance. You certainly wouldn't want the other girl to become involved with him any more than what you allow. Set some rules up in advance, and make them known to everyone. In this instance, YOU need to be in control, as YOU have the most to lose in the relationship if things go bad in the long run.
Good luck!
2006-06-16 13:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, threesomes can be amazing, if your into that kind of thing, i have done it before, and i suggest that if you want to do it, find someone that you at least care about as a friend if not love, not just some random girl. But, if you don't want to, (you really don't have too) just tell him so, but from what i've heard, a threesome is something every guy has wanted at one time or another, but if you do decide to do it, try not to let on person get left out.
2006-06-16 13:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by romanticide91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you don't let him pressure you in to it. If you decide its something you would like to try be prepared. It can but wont always change things depends on the strength of your relationship. You must set ground rules like protection for him or only intercourse with you and absolutely no kissing above the neck. Make it with someone neither of you know make sure they are STD free and when its done they leave.
2006-06-16 13:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by natasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it I know he loves you and you love him but if you do sleep with him and this other women there will be a lot of problems that will follow. Now say you do have the 3 some and then one night you find him with that girl that you had the 3 some with and he tells he she does it better than you or he wants to be with her now... The list goes on and on but it is just a bad idea... Please dont do it because you will have to so much drama to deal with after it happens...
2006-06-16 13:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Krystle T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? Second, are you Bi-sexual or curious? It depends on your relationship. If you want to give it a try, go for it. If it's something you are not comfortable with and turned off by, then DON'T!!! If you choose to not go through with it and he gets mad, he's not the guy for you. Also, never do anything that you'll regret, think of the future, and who might find out.
2006-06-16 13:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by nicki d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First offf he is a liar and you need to get away from him he does not care about you do you have no respect for yourself why would you do such a nasty thing and why do you hang with people that are corrupt do you not know Jesus do you not go to church read your bible go volunteer do for others in a way that is pleasing to God leave sex alone it will kill you and save yourself for that man who would not ask you to do such a deviant act a person that loves you wants what is best for you cares about you your bf is a selfish nasty person that needs to read his bible also
2006-06-16 13:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by jkpoet2@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Really think that if he loved you he would want another woman . Even if you're there participating in the act .
is it apealling to you to have sex with another woman . if so do it ,if not don't be pressured into something that you don't want to do
2006-06-16 13:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bob D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will make a difference - don't do it unless your ready for the change
2006-06-16 13:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by tenngirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it . i did with my first husband and my sister and he fell for her. but then he got killed... i loved him but i still hate him for what he did . i was youg and stupid.dont do it. if i were you i would leave the guy for even asking. if he really loves you why the hell would he ask youto do such a thing . i regret what i did.
2006-06-16 13:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋