We live together, he has been in USA for 4yrs from Mexico, now I find out he has a wife & 3 kids there, but doesn't call or send them $... He told me today that he is only with me to help me, Im a single mom, but I luv him, shld I get rid of him?
2006-06-16 06:20:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try getting a new man who might care about u more.
2006-06-16 06:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 09:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i let him go and tell him to get back to his wife and kids...you love him but i bet those 3 kids love him even more. this already show he is an irresposible man. You wanna feel better...since he also in love with you... then advice him in a nice way to go home to his wife and kids. Remember blood is thicker then water. Relationship between father and child cannot be broken. You will definately feel good saving 4 precious lives.
2006-06-16 06:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nasi_lemak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should absolutely get rid of him. What kind of boyfriend moves in with you and helps you with your kids just to help you out, but has never said i love you...not to mention that he didn't tell you he was married and had 3 kids in mexico.... thats messed up. Get rid of his asss theres a million fish in the sea, someone who would absolutely love to get to know you and be with you because the ywant to make you happy, not just because they're doing you a favor and helping. thats bs.
2006-06-16 06:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u'v got to move on. might be hard but get ursef in company of good friends and am sure u meet someone who deserves ur luv.
2006-06-16 06:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by loon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At break neck speed. Can't beleive you even have the ask the question. A man, I mean boy that won't take care of his own kids won't take care of you and yours - kick him to the curb - HARD.
2006-06-16 06:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by tenngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he's illegal you better get you butt away from him. They're shipping them all back. Sounds like a scam. you can't love someone if u know he's already married. He's been lying to you for a whole year in a half. LOSE HIM!!
2006-06-16 06:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by chick-a-dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has never said I LOVE U, how can the two of u r together.
well, u have to get rid of him cos he's never going to it moreoever he's married with three kids, get a clue girl, he lied to u.
2006-06-16 06:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you should stay with him if he doesnt support his own family. i mean what happens if you and him get married? he probably wouldnt pay for your kids if you got divorced. but if you love him and want to take that risk then its your call.
2006-06-16 06:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by korey h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 16? wake up Britney Spears
2006-06-16 06:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by wolfball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋