I really like this girl and she really likes me but feels guilty being around me and stuff bc shes not allowed to date until shes 16 and were only 14. So what would be the best thing i could do to make her feel less guilty? theres no way in hell her parents are gonna drop the rule so thats outta the question but i meen what should i do? I meen i guess i could wait for her to be 16.
2006-06-16 06:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by Joe K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say just stay really really close friends and if you still wanna go out at 16 then you ll have a good relationship.
2006-06-16 06:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by korey h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is nice that you like and respect this young woman. Of course, you don't want her to feel guilty or have to lie to her parents. It probably seems right now as if 16 is old to begin dating, but her parents probably have reasons or beliefs that lead them to this decision. You should both be concentrating on school so you can get into college and have great lives.
WHy don't you be friends for the next two years. Then, when she can date, if you are still interested in each other romantically, you will already be good friends and have a mature relationship.
She could also ask her parents if group dates are okay. Then you all go out with each other and just have fun.
2006-06-16 06:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Stephiony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care you will take her first answer seriously. You can do stuff together. Get to know each other like friends first. Go to game arcades or amusement parks do funny and silly stuff that you can laugh about. Always think about: What would I have done if either of our parents were here? If this is something that you could do in front of them with no shame my guess is that she would feel less guilty. Good luck!!!
2006-06-16 06:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Gallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing you are too young to be in a relationship other than a friend and you need to go back to English class and learn how to spell get a good education and concentrate on being a kid and enjoying this time of your life there will be time later on for a serious relationship and once today is gone it is gone and you need to have a better language coming out of your mouth no one likes to hear bad words and it really shows how limited you are in speaking with any kind of smarts sorry but I don't use punctuation sometimes I type faster without it I will pray for you
2006-06-16 06:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by jkpoet2@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did not sneak around with her, her parents will not like that and if you every want a chance with her, then respect her parents wishes. Just hang out as friends. You are young what is the hurry on dating. Be responsible and good things will come your way.
2006-06-16 06:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her. Your only 14 you don't need a girl. You can wait 2 years for the girl you love. your parents are just trying to protect you.
Wait for her and then tell your parents(and her's) about this situation. They will think it's very muture of you for waiting and then they will like(and trust) you a lot more.
2006-06-16 06:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by michigansponge1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting is the best answer if you want to get on her parents good side. And maybe in 2 year you will find out you guys dont like eachother as much as you thought!
2006-06-16 06:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by oo0_krissy_0oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, wait for her (and you) to turn 16. 14 is too young for serious dating anyway.
2006-06-16 06:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends for now, then start dating her when she turns 16.
2006-06-16 06:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad that you already came to the conclusion that you could wait that's great but have you told her that
2006-06-16 06:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by icychicmillenium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋