I just don't see the point of keeping in touch with my ex boyfriend. I really can't become my ex good friend. However, I would like to know why boys doing that. Boys, if you don't mind, pls tell me why.
2006-06-16 05:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by Chloe's 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends... if you were really good friends before, then he probably doesn't want to lose that aspect of the relationship. I have a good friend like this (we were best friends all through high school, then we "dated" a little in college, but when she didin't want to "get intimate" any more, we were able to maintain the friendship).
If you weren't great friends before, or never met until you started dating, or if it was maybe a short-lived relationship...then he is just keeping you on the line for a future hookup. It's a lot easier (for both of you) to hook up when you're needy because you've been together before. Plus maybe you were a great lay.
The only other option is he's still madly in love with you. He wants to keep in touch so that one day he can try to ge tback in your life, and maybe create a bigger flame. If you think it's option 2 or 3, and you're not interested...quit being his friend now it'll just hurt him later if you're not gonna be there for what he's expecting.
2006-06-16 06:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by tokin_white_dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not true for all of us. My ex and I never talk anymore, I told her that I didn't ever want to talk to or see her again. I don't want to be her friend even. He is probably doing the back pocket thing like stated by the person above. I would just tell him you do not want to keep in contact. Because there is really no point.
2006-06-16 06:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a guy, but I think I know why. You mattered enough to him to go out, so even if his feelings aren't that strong anymore, they're still there. Unless you have a really big fight, you still matter to the guy. Like I said, he used to think you were an important enough person to go out with, so some feelings still remain.
2006-06-16 06:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by sweet~n~sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 but i think if they break up and u break up u guys can get back togther plus what if 1 person goes famous then the other person is there friend. kinda confusing sorry
2006-06-16 06:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by cool beans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not want to lose a good friend
2006-06-16 06:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by jhnmttngly09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They either are hoping they can get you back or need a sex partner.
2006-06-16 06:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't i hate my ex she's turned into a wierdo... UGH
I'm also with idiot
2006-06-16 06:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by OMGitsSwanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋