Am I too young to have sex...?

Question

Hallo everybody...!!! I'm 14 now and I want to sleep with a guy that I really like and is 22...does it sound very crazy...?

Answer 1

no it does not, people have sexual feeling alot younger than that, and more and more people are having sex at a young age. you are not to young, go for it.

Answer 2

First of all, it is illegal for a 22 year old to have sex with a 14 year old and he could go to prison.

What I have told my kids about sex is this:

You should not have sex until you are prepared to raise a baby on your own. No method of birth control is 100% effective except abstinence. And, if this guy is willing to have sex with a 14 year old girl, he is not the kind of guy who is going to hang around to help raise a baby (especially if he is in prison). Your virginity is something that you can never get back. Once it is gone, it is gone forever. Think really long and hard about this before you do anything.

I know you are going to do what you want to do anyway, but I hope you will consider waiting.

Answer 3

yes it does, you are too young and will most likely have other bf's in your lifetime and if you make that decision this early in your life you will certainly regret it a few years from now, so wait a while grow up and enjoy it while you're still young, you don't want to take on that responsibility already and if the guy doesn't understand then he's a loser anyway. Show self-respect, you aren't even old enough to drive yet and yet you are trying to make such a serious decision as that so early. You have plenty of time for that and you don't want your first time to be a mistake.

Answer 4

Just say these two little words to him...

statutory rape.

You are a minor and no matter how crazy your hormones are there can be bitter consequences to what you are about to do: Disease, pregnancy and a bad reputation.

You should be very angry that a man that is 22 years old (yes, a MAN) should want to take advantage of you and rid you of something that is priceless (which is your virginity). No one of his age can possible have anything in common with someone of your age aside from sex (and don't let him tell you otherwise). Once you lay it down, he will be gone.

Answer 5

You are way too young not to mention the fact that it is illegal for a 22 year old to have sex with a 14 year old.

Answer 6

Thats illeagal y'know because your 14 and he's 22. How long have you known each other? Dont rush into anything. 14 is such a young age. Take your time. Sex isnt going anywhere.

Answer 7

yes plz believe me it is crazy. I made the worst mistake in my life when i had sex with this junior he was 17 and I was 13. I totally regret it, it felt as if my life was a big mess. I felt as if i had betrayed myself. And i also never got to experience first true love
but now i am in a relationship with this guy we have been in it for 3 years now, we didn't commit to each other sexually until our 2 year aniversary. Now that's love but i cannot make a decision for you only you can answer but i do encourage you not to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

You're too young for a guy who is 22, that's for certain. He can go to jail just for sleeping with you... and it doesn't matter whether you wanted to or not. In the eyes of the law, you're not able to consent with someone who is older than, I believe, 17.

So... whether you're ready or not (and you might really, really want to think about it), ask yourself if you want him to go to jail afterward. If you really like this guy, wait until you're 18, or wait until you hook up with a guy your own age.

Answer 9

Crazy? Why? ok maybe you should not, but ask you these questions:

1.I am ready to have sex?
2.Do I know well my partner?
3.Do I experiance enough the body of my partner?

what does it mean? if you don't know enough your partner he may rape you or make you fell bad... Your not too young, it's not that, but everybody should ask himself these questions berfore to have sex. Now if you are realy ready why care about your age?? Go head and have fun ;)

Answer 10

Heck yeah you are too young. If you have to ask , then you know the answer. Use your head. Not only that, but if and when a responible adult who knows you finds out, you are risking him going to jail for statutory rape. he will then ask the question "how do i keep guys who don't like child molesters from beating the tar out of me?"

Answer 11

That guy should be in jail, do your parents know? Don't sleep with anybody until you are atleast 18 and ready. You better be careful, there is aids out there and you could have a baby, that won't be fun since you are a baby yourself.