I think I am fairly attractive (somewhat overweight). Is it possible I give out stay away vibes that I'm not aware of? Thanks.
PS - be kind....
2006-06-16 05:52:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i think it's very possible to do that, and am pretty sure i do it alot. it's the whole defensive wall thing. my daughter told me the other day this girl in the restaurant was blatantly flirting with me and I didn't acknowledge at all, she was quite hot too.
2006-06-16 05:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Individuals are looking for individuals.
Most older men our age have left a relationshipe where they had children and sometimes were the real reason for the men leaving. No privite time between husband and wife. Add stress, Remove intamacy and you have the big D.
So now the men you are looking for are not looking to enter a relationship that they just left. The thinking is that why get into a new relationship when you just left that same situation. I'd rather go back with MY kids.
Kinda blunt.
2006-06-16 13:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hei you just like me.. People like us need to go slow. and be HONEST too and don't try to be a good person by saying what went wrong with your previous married and you are not at fault.(this is a stay away vibes) you don't want to be love out of pity. Telling those bad points will never get you anywhere. even if u are right.... for now that is. be yourself just like the first time you fall in love..I'm sure u hv the experience you were once married.
2006-06-16 13:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nasi_lemak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to get in the right environment. Been in a pub, u give yourself to folks like that. A gathering of similar mates might help and u need to check your outfit too. Is it that type which makes you look older? or not smart? check these out and it sure would help.
2006-06-16 13:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by loon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you get too close too soon. You may be putting out a vibe that you are needy. Guys want women that love company, but are independent too.
2006-06-16 12:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe look into "mixers"/social events for singles in your area!!
Any friends have any friends for you to meet??? You are not the only one in that situation, you know.
-Mr Happy-
:o)
2006-06-16 12:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best assessment would be the guys you hang out with. could it also be where you are looking? good luck
2006-06-16 13:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because you are looking.Stop looking and the guys will find you.That's what i did and it worked for me.
2006-06-16 14:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM BUT THERE OUT THERE JUST BE YOURSELF AND THINGS WILL HAPPEN
2006-06-16 12:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie_clyde_4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋