2006-06-16 05:43:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey with some cultures like where i come from the girls virginity is lost only after marriage and boy isnt it awkward.we have to take blessings from the parents and elders and go into a room at the end of a long day with everybody looking on in expectation of continuity of the family line.oh the pressure...the girls hymen tearing and the resulting stain is needed as proof in some cultures to show virginity of the bride.the covers of the bed are actually displayed the next day.
well i didnt have to go through that but yes by the time we ended up together we were so tired we had to doze off after setting up an alarm at 4.00 am.gosh and we did it.
yes it did hurt .i wasnt lubed up.but it is a great feeling discovering it TOGETHER. it is not that great ecstasy that it is hyped up to be though.
i cant speak for the guys.
2006-06-16 05:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by mnachuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different...but it hurts a little...it's not an unbearable pain...but being nervous and tense has alot to do with that....but once there has been penetration and you relax a little...it starts to feel good. Once you get that nice feeling...the second time goes a little easier because you know what to expect. But make sure that you protect yourself...cause what may come out in the following 9 months if you don't hurts a hella lot more...STD's ain't too comfy either. Be smart if your gonna start exploring.
2006-06-16 05:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Passionate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time for me was neither feeling good or bad. When you are young and its your first time you often don't know too much about your own body and what you like, plus you are usually nervous and the guy is usually just wanting to get down to business so in the end, i would say a first time is most often nothing to write home about.
2006-06-16 05:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts more for some people than others. Mine hurt a bit and it took a while but it hurt but still felt good. It stopped fully hurting after my fourth time. It still feels sooo good though. Use lots of lube and lots of foreplay. Be safe too!
*feels soo old........that was seven years ago!*
2006-06-16 05:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually hurts if you're the girl and it doesn't feel good the first time.
2006-06-16 05:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me girl it's both, i mean when i first had sex ,the guy's dick was like 5" and it hurt like hell, but guess what, he was someone that i loved and i was very glad that he took it. It hurts a whole lot, but if u really wanna do it, u won't mind the pain. once u're in it, u just wanna get it over with and done.
2006-06-16 05:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt for the first time, but if you have the guy get you really wet and excited... it would not be so bad. Relax and try to enjoy it.. if your tense, it makes it a lot worse for you too.
Also use a condom as you can get pregnant from your first time too.
2006-06-16 05:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by tangie1247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of it depends on the size of the guys cock if it is really big then it hurts more.... usually the first time doesnt feel good anyway no matter what. But it gets better with time.
2006-06-16 05:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time, your so worried about getting cought that ya dont pay attention.
It's a personal thing, some say it was good, some say it hurt.... I say it was gross! I cried after and felt nasty. Got over it after a month and did it again.
2006-06-16 05:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt know but i do know alot of people that do they said it hurts for the first time bacause you might get a rash the first time b/c ur skin rubs together
odd questo to ask on this web site i would of asked a friend or some one eles that i know
2006-06-16 05:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by teardrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋