2006-06-16 05:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by ten26ohoh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you have to know when enough is enough. It all depends on the situation that the relationship is going through and after trying to many times it gets old and you have to face the fact that some things will never change. You can't expect to have a perfect relationship and sometimes the trials that you go through are just too hard to handle or your just tired of everything. I don't think any person if they truly love their significant other wants to just simply walk away from what they have but sometimes that the only choice you have. Like they say when one door closes another will open.
2006-06-16 05:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mia A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all do. I've almost left my husband a few times. He's had to cut ties with his parents over me. We've now been married 8 years, but the first half were very rocky years (lots of babies popping out left him stressed and me tired).There have been other issues, but not adultery. Once you hurt someone's feelings so much and they hurt you badly too, its hard to be adult about it and try to work it out. Its easier and feels better to just be mean and petty. It takes maturity, patience, love, and a huge dose of trust to stay in a marriage for the long haul. Sometimes people think divorce is easier, then they just repeat the mistakes on the next marriage and never learned anything. Marriage isn't easy. Marriage doesn't survive on love and sex. Too many couples don't take the time to really find out who their partner is, only to get stuck in a marriage with a druggie, abuser, control freak, alcoholic, anger problem, porn addict, habitual liar, and so on. Then when they do find out these things, they rush off to the courthouse instead of the therapist. I just hate hearing about how hard it was, and how much they ignore you, and how he never helps. If he was always like that, why marry him? And if he changed, why not have talked, communicated, and compromised where you were both still partners instead of 1 doing all the work. If he cheats on you or beats you, then go. Otherwise, work on that thing!
/gets off her soap box.
2006-06-16 12:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to do the work it takes. Walking away is the easy way out. In walking away they don't have to face that they too may be part of the problem.
2006-06-16 12:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may "appear" that way but the truth is, it ISN'T easy to just walk away and I can assure you there's usually a lot of drama and stuff you don't know about prior to the "walking away".....
2006-06-16 12:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because walking away is much easier then for both to communicate and everyone knows communication is the one thing that can make or break a relationship
2006-06-16 12:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by kansas2535 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-16 12:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to walk away from something.
2006-06-16 12:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that one person gives up and stops caring and they don't want to put forth the effort to save the relationship.
2006-06-16 12:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes ages ti build a relationship but seconds to break a good relation ship..........................very true .....................depends on understanding of a couples
2006-06-16 12:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by ekanki g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋