2006-06-16 05:32:23 · 13 answers · asked by tim_hudson03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's great to wait until marriage. But I think sex is important in a relationship. So what if you get married and the sex sucks? You MIGHT be able to change it, but don't have too much hope.
2006-06-16 05:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No you shouldn't wait. This is no longer the 50's, and everyone is not a virgin bride. I made the hugest mistake by waiting to "shack up" until I was married, needless to say I am no longer married. You really need to feel the other person out and what they are like to live with before you make that big of a committment.
2006-06-16 12:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by sbg172002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you're already engaged and planning a wedding, living together is not a big deal. If you're moving in with someone and you don't want to get married but have committed yourselves to each other that is fine too. I don't think that people should live together because it is convenient.
2006-06-16 12:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to test it out that's fine but why live together...people who live to together for a long period of time put themselves at risk for legal problems...in Texas we have common law marriage...Guys open themselves up to child support orders and division of property.
In fact, a common law marriage is just as legally binding as a statutory or ceremonial marriage — it is just formed differently (wikipedia)
That means if you beakup you still have to be divorced andhire lawyers and all of that hoopla.
people may choose to not go though the legal and social hoops to be married but there will be more legal hoops if the relationship ends
I say test out the equipment but don't take it home.
2006-06-16 12:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by TRU_TEXAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should wait till they are married to live together but it is good to get to know someone before you get married to them and what better way than to live with them. But I must reinstate that its much better to wait till you're married to live together.
2006-06-16 12:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine to live with someone before your married..If you really want to know that person better then live with them..It will tell you all you need to know about them..Its then when you can make a decision to dedicate your lives to each other on down the road..=)
2006-06-16 12:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well in some sense it is good as they need to know each other a lil bit but at the same time it is not good cause it lessens the hidden feeling after marriage. personaly i think it should not be done
2006-06-16 12:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by nax_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on if you are stupid and not married or smart and married in other words i would say wait till marriage!
2006-06-16 12:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why wait? to find out she's messy and he's a couch potato? help your relationship out and make sure your compatible before you take the walk.
2006-06-16 12:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by stuckingrasstucky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should wait until your married.
2006-06-16 12:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋