My boyfriend of 1 week (we've been seeing each other for 2 weeks) doesn't want me to touch him down there(anymore). When we first met I was all over him but after a few days of just meeting him, he told me that I shouldn't touch him in that way anymore cause I guess it gets him in the mood for sex and he knows that I'm not ready to have sex yet. Well I was wondering if that was normal and what should I do in order for him to let me touch his man hood. I really like to make him feel good but he stops me.
*So should he let me touch him or should I back down and stop getting him in the mood? What should I do?
2006-06-16 05:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by Knowledge is Power 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, that's really hard for a guy. Once you get the engine running it's really hard to stop it. I think it's really responsible of him to just set boundaries so he's not tempted to do something he knows is a mistake at this point in the relationship. Bravo to him.
2006-06-16 05:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by stratocastinator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number 1.
NEVER TEASE A MAN WHO WANTS TO HAVE SEX!
You must be young to not know this but men don't feel the same way women do about that. You can tease SOME women and they just feel good but there is NO man who likes to be teased into being hard and nothing is going to happen. That just pisses men off. Just being honest.
2006-06-16 12:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by dd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is known as teasing a guy. You should respect what he is asking you to do if you are not ready to have sex.
I also agree with the previous person's comments. A week is not long enough to know someone.
2006-06-16 12:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only known this dude for two weeks? Hello! You're an idiot! You sound like you're only 13. There's NO reason for you to even be touching his "manhood." Geez. This makes me wanna slap you.
2006-06-16 12:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tease him-respect the request. if you're not ready to have sex then lay off for a bit. work on other aspects of your relationship, eventually you and him will get to that stage
2006-06-16 12:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want sex, and you touch him to arouse him. its not fair. either go all way or leave him or stop touching him. dont make him suffer.
2006-06-16 12:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get him excited if you're not gonna give him any!!!! Just in case you didn't know, leaving a guy with a hardon is basically the worst torture you could give him!!!!!
POOOOOR GUY!
2006-06-16 12:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Chino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna do dat then u will hav 2 hav sex wit him
2006-06-16 12:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Money Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EITHER LEAVE HIM ALONE OR HAVE SEX WITH HIM..YOUR TEASEING HIM AND THATS NOT RIGHT EITHER BE GROWN ENOUGHT O ACCEPT THE FULL PACKAGE OR LEAVE IT ALL ALONE!!!!!
2006-06-16 12:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by lifeis4eva_420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok if you want to have sex
2006-06-16 12:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by puppy_love_day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋