I am not meaning with appearance or looks or anything, but I mean attitude wise, because I seem to notice the girls I have met here in Oklahoma are ruthless and look to rip out my heart any chance they get. I am just wondering if I should move out of state because I am getting fed up with getting my heart broken.
2006-06-16 05:15:52 · 32 answers · asked by idiotman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I have never pissed off the girl in any of the cases, one moment I'm dating them they are telling me I'm the best that they love me, the next moment I find out they've been cheating on me etc. Maybe it is the city I live in. Or maybe I have poor taste in girls >.> Of course the girls I have dated have had poor choices in boyfriends before then I am as nice as I can possibly be(nicer than I try to be normally.) and then next thing I know they go right back to the same type guy they were with. I dunno, I'm just a loser in love.
2006-06-16 05:23:26 · update #1
I'm not looking for the perfect woman, and I know girls can be hormonal, I am not having problems with fighting etc. I have been in over three or four different relationships all of them have resulted in me being cheated on. Of course this of course happens right after they tell me they love me and im the best boyfriend ever etc. The last one was terrible went with a girl for almost a year when I learned she started seeing some other guy. This is the only reason I am wondering this, I'm just trying to find a nice, non-cheating woman to settle down with >.>
2006-06-16 05:47:12 · update #2
All women are bitches!
2006-06-27 23:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm in OK (in fact I was born and raised here) and no, girls in other states are not different. It is totally a matter of perception. If you go into a relationship expecting a girl not to be hormonal at times and emotional, yes you are going to get hurt and upset. If you are looking for the perfect woman, you might consider becoming a recluse. We aren't perfect, sorry. Yes we will have bad days. Sorry. Yes we will really piss you off. Sorry. Moving out of state just to find a better date seems, honestly, a little desperate. Of course you might have had a run in with the really bad eggs, but that's just bad luck. Try looking in a different place. If bar hopping is working for you, try online. If online isn't working for you try coffee shops. If those aren't working for you try a personal ad. There are tons of ways to meet people. Be patient, you'll find someone. Best of luck!
2006-06-16 05:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was born and raised in Alaska, moved to Portland, Oregon, back to Alaska, then to Illinois, then to New Jersey and I now go to school in Connecticut.
Alright if you've followed all that, There is a huge difference from state to state in all aspects of people. There are different cultures, different attitudes, a whole different pace to society. The East is much faster paced and everyone wants what they want right away while in the West people are much more relaxed and seem to just enjoy life as it comes to them.
You may seem different to those girls right now. The best thing you can do is make sure you are not sucked into their meanness and keep your own character. You probably have something that they are jealous of...maybe they are just jealous that you have actually had the chance to be out of Oklahoma...something they probably will never get to do (or they are too afraid to do).
2006-06-16 05:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by okronbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are different attitudes of females in different regions... a lot of it, I think, has to do with the female to male ratios in the area.... it's the same for guys too.... ex: guys in NY seem to be pushier to me than the guys in TX (where I live) this could be because a guy in NY has to work harder to find a girl up there (girls seem to be a bit gripey up there - much more high maintenance)..
I would advise you to take a look at yourself before you start blaming the girls... if several people have all done the same thing to you, chances are it is not the girls! the common denominator is you, my friend. Maybe you're approaching the relationship in the wrong way for these certain 'types' of girls.
2006-06-16 05:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by ceaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sure are....Well East coast girls are hip
I really dig those styles they wear
And the Southern girls with the way they talk
They knock me out when I'm down there
The Mid-West farmer's daughters really make you feel alright
And the Northern girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night
I wish they all could be California
I wish they all could be California
I wish they all could be California girls
The West coast has the sunshine
And the girls all get so tanned
I dig a french bikini on Hawaii island
Dolls by a palm tree in the sand
I been all around this great big world
And I seen all kinds of girls
Yeah, but I couldn't wait to get back in the states
Back to the cutest girls in the world
I wish they all could be California girls
2006-06-16 05:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sence you didn't answer my question very nicley, ill be nice to you and aswer your with more respect.
ok fist of all, its not your fault. maybe you should take a break from finding the right girl as soon as the last one dumps you. i mean, see if you can stay out of the game for like 2 weeks and then get back in. maybe you will have a different perspective on them and you will be able to choose the right one at the right time. it has nothing to do with your state, if you really want to move move, not because of the girls, just move because you want to. i hope you find the right one day, good luck. lolsee i can be nice
2006-06-19 05:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some states have girls that are nicer then others. But anywhere you go there are always going to be girls like that, it just varies on whether they are the majority or the miniority. I live in texas and i love it. i've lived above you in kansas, and now i'm below you in texas, and from all the people i know both kansas and texas have minorities of those kind of people.
2006-06-16 05:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by kansas2535 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I live in CA and I'm in love with a guy in NJ
We write letters, and it is a unique and beautiful relationship (not love, not just friends, something special) I knew him when we were little than he moved to NJ. We've been writing to eachother for ten years man! It's awesome he's sooo nice! And he actually CARES about me! Really, not artificial stuff, we honestly just want to make eachother happy, it's a really cool relationship/friendship thing.
2006-06-16 21:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been to a bunch of states and some places are like that and others all the girl wants is a happy relationship....try a new place and see whatcha like.
2006-06-16 05:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, no girls are ruthless no matter where you are, we just work differently in every state, but have the same main goal! sorry, I'm sorta joking. But it's kinda true, but not all us women are out to rip your heart to shreads, some women really just want your heart in one piece. So don't give up on us too soon.
2006-06-16 05:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, location plays a part in the upbringing of the girls. You see difference between country and city girls already, what more between states.
2006-06-16 05:19:17 · answer #11 · answered by peanutz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋