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i didnt attend an interview because i was too lazy and felt i wouldnt get the job anyway. Now everyone else attended it and got jobs..even the stupid ones..and i feel like such an ***..i keep going back in time wishing i had got up and gone for the interview. I just hate myself and am in total depression:(

2006-06-16 05:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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I sure did, and I learned my lesson and had a nasty time getting over it and still just am. I learned a whole lot of lessons my main to use the brain and think before I act NO LIES!!! Friends and others, God, even special friends helped me lots of people did but I did many things to get over it and well and still working hard once again! I am very thankful and happy.

2006-06-16 05:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 1 0

All you can do is learn from your mistake and decide not to do that again. Let it go, don't beat yourself up if you were meant to have that job you would have been more motivated to go get it. But obviosly that wasn't the job for you, so get up every day and commit atleast 2hours a day on finding a job like
Fill out applications
Look through newspaper
Apply for jobs on Monster or careerbuilder
If you keep doing what you need to do and not be lazy your job will eventually come along

2006-06-16 13:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 1 · 0 0

Everybody at one time or other in life does something regretful. It hurts for a while, it troubles your mind initially, but with time, it passes. Perhaps on some extremely rate occasion, it haunts you for a fraction of a sec. Anyway, what is done, cannot be undone. Right? Be positive and think that there is something even better in store for you. But dont just twiddle your thumbs - go out and make it happen if you want to really get over your depression.

2006-06-16 12:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by someone 3 · 0 0

Yes, lots of things but one in particular. There's no way to change it so you need to recognize your mistake and learn how to fix it so it doesn't happen again. That's the only way to get over it. There will be other jobs, maybe better ones, that you won't miss the interview for because you won't be lazy and not go even if you don't think you won't get them.

2006-06-16 12:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If everyone got the job, its not a very good job then. Sound like a temp job, or customer service mass hire, just lookup retail sales jobs in your area. You will get one.

2006-06-16 13:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Have you ever wondered about the reason of our existence? Have you ever wondered why we die, and where we go after death? What will happen to us in the end? Have you ever asked yourself why God made the earth and all that is in it under man’s dominion? Why were the night and the day, and the sun and the moon created? What are we supposed to do during our lifetime? Were we created just to eat, drink, and enjoy ourselves before we die? As one poet put it:
“I do not know whence I have come.
I saw my feet walking on the road.
As they please I go and stop.
What am I doing here?
How did the road find me?
I do not know! I do not know! I do not know! ”

God has emphasized in many verses of the Qur’an that He did not create us without purpose. He said: “What! Do you think that I created you simply in jest? And that you would not be returned to Me?” (23:115) He also said: “What! Does man think that he will be left to roam at his will?” (75:36) In addition, He said: “Do people think that they will be left to say: “We believe,” and they will not be held accountable?” (29:2)
Indeed, God Has created human beings for a purpose and with a purpose: TO WORSHIP HIM ALONE (Monotheism). He said: “I have not created the Jinn and humankind except only to worship Me. I don't require provision or feeding from them. Surely Allah is the All-provider, the Possessor of all strength, the Firm.” (51:56-58) In fact, all prophets told their people to worship God alone (Monotheism) and shun worshipping His creation (Paganism). God said: “I assuredly sent among every people a messenger with the command: Worship Allah and avoid worshipping false gods.” (16:36)
Prophet Abraham, for example, believed in One God, who had no partner. Anyone who holds a different understanding of God than this has contradicted the religion of Abraham and follows falsehood. God says in the Qur’an: “Those who reject the religion of Abraham make fools of themselves.” (2:130)
Prophet Jesus was reported in the Gospels to have said: “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only’.” (Luke 4:8)
Prophet Jacob also said (in the Qur'an) to his people: “Indeed, those which you worship besides Allah are only names that you and your forefathers have established, for which Allah has sent down no authority. The command belongs only to Allah. He has commanded that you worship none but Him. That is the right religion, but most people do not understand.” (12:40)
Read more about the TRUE BELIEVE which supported by the Miracle Holy Quran :
http://www.islam-guide.com/islam-guide.pdf

http://www.harunyahya.com

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Real happiness and peace can be ONLY found in submitting to the commands of the Creator and the Sustainer of this world. God has said in the Qur’an: (Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest.)
(Qur’an, 13:28)

On the other hand, the one who turns away from the Qur’an will have a life of hardship in this world. God has said:
(But whoever turns away from the Qur’an, he will have a hard life, and We will raise him up blind on the Day of Judgment.) (Qur’an, 20:124)
This may explain why some people commit suicide while they enjoy the material comfort money can buy. For example, look at Cat Stevens (now Yusuf Islam), formerly a famous pop singer who used to earn sometimes more than $150,000 a night. After he converted to Islam, he found true happiness and peace, which he had not found in material success.
To read the stories of people who have converted to Islam, please visit

http://www.islam-guide.com/stories

At this web page, you can read the thoughts and feelings of these people, who are from different countries and have different backgrounds and levels of education.
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2006-06-19 05:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everybody does things they regret, and they just have to live with the regret. After a while you don't think about it constantly.
Next time you decide to do something, ask yourself if you think you might regret it later, cause you'll have to live with the feeling.

2006-06-16 13:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by simsta 3 · 0 0

I hit an old lady in the face with a frisbee about 15 years ago. I'm still not over it.

2006-06-16 12:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by rosends 7 · 0 0

Don't regret that. you felt low down that day some things aren't perfect so don't be hard on your self

2006-06-16 12:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You move forword and learn from your mistakes which is the best way to learn by the way.

2006-06-16 12:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Irish 7 · 0 0

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