I cant get over my ex, I dont want him back but I cant seem to move pass the breakup.evnthough I dont want?

Question

him back, I cant move on. Its been two months.

Answer 1

remind yourself it is HIS loss......you have alot to offer the right person....there is better out there for you :)

Answer 2

Give yourself time to think. Take a walk or something somewhere peaceful and think about what he had that did not suit you- was he not strong enough? did he cheat? or did you guys simply clash? When you realize what you want, know and assure yourself that the faster you can get over this guy- the right guy will come into your life. But don't get over him just for the motivation of the right man- understand that the only way your going to meet the right person- is if you sort of spend time on yourself and become independent for your happiness, then the relationship you will get into later will be so much deeper because you and your partner will have stuff to give, and stuff to take. Treat yourself- and call the best into your life.

Answer 3

As with any relationship you have with a person, whether it be a friend or lover, these people mean something to you. When you cause that partnership to end, you feel like you have lost something of yourself. "Moving pass" is a stage of life. Find something that you have always wanted to do, like taking an art class or writing a novel. Artistic outlets are a wonderful way of letting what you are bottling up to come out and help you move to the next level. I wish you well.

Answer 4

I'm in your shoes now. It's been two months for me as well, and it's been hard because I do love him, but I wish that he would be different so that I would want to be with him. I too can't seem to get past the breakup and it still makes me furious to think about it, but there is nothing that I can do to change things. The only thing that I can do is to just move on with my life and keep my head up. I sometimes stop to think about why things happened and I come up with alot of questions that I cannot get the answers to. It's hard, I know, but I've seen that the best thing to do to is just accept it and think positive.

Answer 5

I've heard that for every year you are with a person, it will take the same number of months to completely get over the relationship (just as a rough guide, but obviously it's not science). So a 2 year relationship will take 2 months to get over, etc...

Answer 6

I've been in your shoes B4, just give it time, and try to meet new guys, just go out and have fun. I have been broken up from my ex for 4 months, and still i think about him, it will be hard, but it will pass, just have fun , and do things that make you happy, and soon, you will realize that your not even thinking about him. its just that you spent so much of your time with one person, and now , NOTHING, I promise, it will happen.!!
love and good luck.

Answer 7

i had/ still have a lil of the same prob u do
the guy wasnt some1 i loved yet i loved the way he treated me
we had fun
but its over!
so i felt really crappy at first but i went out with my friends last night n it really helped
it proved me im still hot n fun n can get another cute guy in no-time
-go out n party girl u deserve it!

Answer 8

go out and start meeting new people, See he has moved on girlfriend it time you let go and do the same.

Answer 9

Give time time to work. This too shall pass.

Answer 10

You are confused...just try to forget him...persue with your hobbies ...time is solution....its just 2 months.....wait for some time....everything will be ok....best luck!!!

Answer 11

go out to clubs have fun meet new people