origanally I would climb into his bed & cuddle because I like the confort of sleeping with somone. But latly I've been wanting more from him. He's still in friend mode...& stays on his side of the bed...any suggestions?
2006-06-16 04:45:31 · 31 answers · asked by Bgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanx for your imput, I'm not going to sleep with him anymore. I realise that he's just not attracted to me (no he's not gay)
2006-06-16 07:35:15 · update #1
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
2006-06-16 06:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, there could be 4 reasons:
1. He has a significant other and doesnt want to do anything that could ruin his relationship
2. He isnt getting the signals that you are sending.
3. He is gay.
4. He is afraid that it will ruin your friendship
Try pushing for it some more and see how will he react..i bet the reason would be one of those above.
2006-06-16 11:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my wildest dreams I cannot imagine a scenario where a beautiful girl climbs into bed with me and I do not try something. There are only 2 possible explanations: (1) you are not as desirable as you think (perhaps you are overweight?) or (2) he is a fruitcake.
2006-06-16 14:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by TPG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the same bed and he is not responding, then you have to set your very pretty eyes on another target. He is either with someone else or on another plane altogether. Do you guys talk? Does she notice you when you walk around? Based on your photo, you will have nooo PROBLEMS.
2006-06-17 22:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched "Just Friends"?
Try the things that the woman tried in the movie. I know that would work for me.
Or you could try some slight contact. let your legs or butt touch him. Mabey lightly touch him with your hands. If you feel him start to get arroused, them go from there.
2006-06-16 11:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by hammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's definately messed up in the head, that crap ain't natural. he should be licking the little man in the boat by now. stays on his side of the bed? I thought you were cuddling? how do you cuddle from opposite sides of the bed? theres your problem.
2006-06-16 23:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good to have a sleep buddie also be your roomate. Jealousys could arrive from this. Think twice before doing this
2006-06-16 11:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by blueyedfaerydoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not gay and you're remotely attractive, all you have to do is initiate something. Sadly, the comment about rubbing is probably the answer
2006-06-16 11:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound crude but grab his junk. You want it anyway. Guys like when girls initiate sex. You will find out what the deal is soon enough.- I wish I was in his shoes.
2006-06-16 12:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by thelategreatmelott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him unless you are wanting a relationship because otherwise you may end up getting hurt.
2006-06-16 11:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do more than cuddle. Tonight, climb into bed wearing your birthday suit. kiss him gently behind his ear. gently massage his body brushing against his p****. If that doesn't get him going .. nothing will.
If he doesn't get it up, call me!
2006-06-16 11:53:17 · answer #11 · answered by toyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋