Theres this guy I am totally infactuated by. I have known him for years. He invited me to his house, so I went, we got talking, but nothing happened. We just flirted, and when I asked him if he was single he says "kind of". So I casually leave, feeling like a total idiot, because that was a que for him to ask me out, but he didnt. Instead, he says come down and see me anytime, the door is always open. he didnt even take my number. And now a few weeks have passed, I just cant do it. I say to myself Im gonna do it today, but I just cant cuz hes so sexy. I just dont know what to do? How do I approach this guy who I have liked since i was 15?
2006-06-16 04:45:04 · 11 answers · asked by Ms.Trouble 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know hes not single!!! But i have liked him since i was 15, and i am now 23. Ok - he lives on my road - i dated his friends back in the day. I have moved away and come back, and bumped into him again after years. Im gona have to just do it. ****. i cant do it.
2006-06-16 05:02:01 · update #1
Just go and talk to him. If you can't, ask yourself why you cant. Then, when you found the answer, tell yourself that you can get over with this fear. The net thing you'll know, you might just be talking again to him. :P
2006-06-16 04:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theres this guy I am totally infactuated by
Well to the extent that he didn't take advantage of this, he sounds like a decent guy. But he's probably not interested or kind of means, no ,he is tied to someone. If all you want is sex that you can have but his soul is not availible to you. Move on.
2006-06-16 11:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by leon s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this guy is giving you a signal...
The signal is:
- I will not commit to you.
- I may be seeing other women.
- I am available to hook-up with you if you come over, but that's it.
If a hookup is all you want, all you have to do is show up. But if you have feelings for this guy, I would stay away - he's made it clear that he's available for only one thing - and possibly to more girls than just you!
2006-06-16 11:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Marjorie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not saying how old you are now...also he says, he's "kind" of single. in other words, he's seeing someone and you have different expectations at this point. he sounds like he's just looking for a friend, possibly with benefits...are you willing to do that?
2006-06-16 11:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were interested he would have called. He gave the indication that he has another girl. He was being polite saying to call him sometime, he didn't mean it. He is a player. Find someone who chases you.
2006-06-16 11:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a dick... he basically told you -- in guy talk -- he's either looking to cheat or just wanting to mess around with you AND someone else.
2006-06-16 11:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away,any guy who is kinda single is a cheat.
2006-06-16 11:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it you only live once. Life is about taking chances, if he doesn't want you hey it's his lost. Good Luck!
2006-06-16 11:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by mnj0012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of? He's not single. He's seeing someone and does not mind cheating on her.
2006-06-16 11:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him again if he has a gf becase you dont wanthim if he does and tell him u like him
2006-06-16 11:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋