to see the love that he was giving to you he gives to someone else
2006-06-16 04:08:22 · 31 answers · asked by browneyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just want to say i wont be choosing a best answer cos so many were brilliant uve all got good advice thank u to CHERYL... ARYA... CRAZYCHICK... MELLESA... ELGFF... BILL241961... and especially CARRIE P and CRAZYNLOVE
2006-06-16 04:23:55 · update #1
and KRISA1981
2006-06-16 04:25:24 · update #2
The feeling is worse than anything i've ever felt, it feels like your heart is gonna drop into your stomach at any moment and you can't breathe, eat, or sleep. It hurts your head and your body, yea I feel like that now. How you gave your all and he turned around and gave to someone else. Its called a broken heart and only time can heal it, when you just want to tell him what he means to you and hopes he understands and give it back. It's gonna hurt and the more you dwell on it the more it eats at you. Be strong cause your perfect someone is out there waiting for you and the love that you have to offer. DOn't beat yourself up over it cause there's nothing you can do and that's another reason why it hurts so much cause you have no control over it. I feel ya hang in there cause there's other people going through exactly what you're going through even though it feels as if you're alone.
2006-06-16 04:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Asian*hunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I think you're more hurt by the fact that he moved on to someone else before you did. Cause that was my problem before. When my ex broke up with me I was hurt, yes, but I was hurt even more when a month later he says he's got a new girlfriend and I am still alone. I was so jealous and thought I wanted him back, but my best friend made me realize that it wasn't that I still wanted him, I was just jealous if anything at the fact that he moved on with his life so quick. So all you really need to do is find a new guy and try to move on, cause someone out there will give you more love than that guy ever did, and that's what you deserve. Good luck and God bless.
2006-06-16 11:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didnt hurt like hell, then it wasnt love. I know what you mean - it is supposed to be like that though. Not much you can do but the same thing - go give "whats left of your feelings" right now, to somebody else and eventually you will stop caring about that person and be able to invest the "whole you" in someone more worthy
2006-06-16 11:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does hurt like hell - almost killed me when it happened to me. but I guess in time you can heal some but i do not think that it will ever not hurt if the love you gave was true. But it does make you a little wiser in the long run.
when it first happened I would have cut off both my arms to have her back but now I would not take her back not because the love is still not every bit as strong as it ever was but because I could not survive if it happened again.
great question by the way
2006-06-16 11:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had it done to me from a guy I dated for 3 years....he was cheating on me the entire time... he last 3 months we were together he had a new woman that he said he loved also. Its not worth it get rid of him!!! trust Of course it hurts like hell!!!... but when you find a new love it will all be worth it!
2006-06-16 11:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by tashas33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same! i was with my ex for 5 years and i keep thinking why why why !!! i believe its our fault... we hurt ourselves! i mean im sure if we found another guy that was nice we would be happy right!? and yet we feel depressed and keeps thinking about it... try to eat.... not wanting to have anything to do with anyone else and just wishing for him to come back ! but i guess we both should face the facts and since he is giving the love to someone else that means he can give it easily to other girls too .. and dont blame her.... HE is to blame!!! and trust me you dont need a guy like that!! we should both be strong and try move on ... it hurts like hell but theres no other way! patience!!!
2006-06-16 11:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it does hurt at first but then as time goes by, you learn to deal with it. You just need to move on. No one said life is fair. There are ups and downs. Try to do something in your spare time, like volunteering somewhere, to take your mind off of it.
2006-06-16 11:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by islandgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah very much...it hurts like hell....you just can not share your love with anybody....you want that person always with you...you want that person to care only for you.....you want that person only in your life..not in some other person's life...it pains a lot..a lot...
2006-06-16 11:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG..............YES
broke my heart in pieces, never allowed myself to fall for someone like that again, it hurt way too much and that was 10 years ago.
the worst it think is unrequited love, to know you can never have the person you want most or to know he will never feel the same about you and to know you can never tell them!
that hurts like hell!
2006-06-16 11:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i went out with this one guy for nearly 3yrs and i found out he was cheating on me and he said since i knew he was breaking up with me it hurt like hell i thought my life was over!! then i asked him why he did it and he said because i wasnt having sex with him and the other grl was i was thinking he didnt have to cheat on me for 3 years and just break up with me so if this guy was your love and you 2 split up than find someone new and forgat about that a** hole and move on with your life!!!!!
2006-06-16 11:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋