ok so we were together for two months yesterday and he forgot it really sent me off and the main reason i broke up wit him was i wrong and i still do love him alot he said we can still be friends but i want him to be wit me
2006-06-16 04:03:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apologies in advance if any of this sounds harsh; I'm just trying to be honest, OK?
For starters, learn to spell and punctuate. Please.
Second, guys don't keep track of how long you are together when you are going out; they just don't...that's a chick thing...so if you're going to break up with every guy who doesn't remember an anniversary, especially something as lame as 2 MONTHS, then you are going to be breaking up a lot. I could understand maybe you being mad if you were married to him, but PLEASE. Stop being so sensitive and grow up.
Also, if he's telling you he just wants to be friends now, that means he's over you...another indication that this relationship meant more to you than to him. I'd say move on. Looks like he already has.
This answer isn't going to get me 10 points, but at least it's an honest answer.
2006-06-16 04:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by answerman63 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit and talk with him. Are you truly in love or is infatuation?? Does he love you?? Being together for two months is a good start for a relationship, but you have to look at the aspects of life and love. If something that small sent you off then you need to look at yourself. Being with someone and being in love are two different things. But if you truly love him, apologize to him and explain why you were wrong. Take if from there, if he really loves you he'll understand, if not there is somebody else out there for you.
2006-06-16 04:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by gab_b_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight...you were with him 2 months and he didn't acknowledge that it was your 2-month anniversary? You were completely in the wrong. It's one thing to be together for a year and have an established date of anniversary and it's quite another to be together for a mere 60 days and expect him to fall at your feet. You owe him an apology and you'll be lucky if he takes you back, but give it a try. If you get him back, stop being such a drama queen about insignificant things. You need to learn to pick your battles, and one over a 2-month "anniversary" is not the one to choose.
2006-06-16 04:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of why you broke up with him..get a sheet of paper.If the good outways the bad, think about it then react.But, if you've been hurt so many times it makes you sick, love has nothing to do with being miserable.Look at Ike and tina!! And i don't mean you have to be in an abusive relationship either.I just used them because no one was really happy.
2006-06-16 04:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by hermese b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have to understand that women are emotional, and he in a lot of cases have to understand your emotions. If you really love him and are willing to drop this and move on then take him back, if you are going to hold it over his head until you all are completely separated then let him go now because it will save you a headache.
2006-06-16 04:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of stupid, so he forgot? Alot of men do. But you just broke up with him. I don't think he'll take you back.
2006-06-16 04:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, it set you off that he didn't realize you were together for only two months? i think he shouldn't take you back
2006-06-16 04:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM YOU WERE WRONG AND IT IS ONLY TWO MONTHS SO THERE IS NO NEED TO GET MAD
2006-06-16 04:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by MELIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend..but let him call you..try to forget that he is the one you love
2006-06-16 04:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by sweetshima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your head out of your backside and take him back....damn, grow up will you!
2006-06-16 04:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋