How often should you call and check on your wife while she's at work?

Answer 1

i would say only once a day, maybe at lunch. or before she heads out of the office to go home. if you call her too much it is annoying and she may think something is up.

Answer 2

Bad news travels fast. Hence, there is no reason at all to call your wife at work and check on her. If something is wrong, you will find out rather quickly. She is an adult and so, I assume, are you. People are becoming dependent little babies on the phone. It is absurd that people don't have the self-confidence and decision-making ability to even go through the grocery store without the proverbial suck on the telephone bottle. Leave her alone. She has a job to do. Don't you?

Answer 3

From personal experience with that kind of bullsh**,I can tell you that it's not a good idea.For one thing,most employers frown on employees taking personal calls at work unless it's an emergency.Your insecurity.if that is what it is, may cost her that job.Anything you have to say can wait until she gets home.For another,if you are "checking up" on her your marriage is headed for big trouble. Lack of trust is the reason for most divorces.And think about this......What would you do,how would you feel,if the situation was reversed?

Answer 4

Unless you have a valid reason to check on her...ie she has been ill, or had a death in the family...... or unless you have urgent information to share.....you shouldn't check up on her! Do you not trust each other? Work is work! just that. Having a jealous husband call numerous times during a day is not only immature, but a distraction to everyone in the area.

Answer 5

Well, if your wife is at work you should not call her to check up on her. There should be a degree of TRUST, and if you feel insecure to call her at work to check and make sure she is there, then maybe we should be calling you to check up on you.

Answer 6

Um...Check on her? For what reason? Is this based on Jealousy? You should never "Check-up" on your mate and if you feel that you have to then you should not be together. I sometimes call my wife or she calls me on our lunch breaks but that is only once a day and only to say hi.

Answer 7

Why would you want to check up on your wife? You can call her and tell her you love her, or are thinking about her. Checking up on her implies that you don't trust her.

Answer 8

Like never call to CHECK on her. If you just want to say Hi or something maybe once or twice a day and make it short. But never call to CHECK on her...good grief

Answer 9

Umm...how jealous are you anyway?

You should only call her if she WANTS you to call her to touch base, or if something important comes up.

If you are calling her to see if she's fooling around with the boss yet, you're headed for disaster. What she IS doing working is contributing to your well-being, and as such deserves and requires your RESPECT and some dignity---which includes not 'checking up on her'.

Answer 10

Never! Maybe if you have a planned lunch w/ her then call her if things change, but other than that leave her alone. Trust in marriage is a must. Unless you're doing something bad and if you're doing wrong then you might think that she's doing something bad, right? Leave your insecurities at home with your mommy.

Answer 11

if you are just calling to check on her and you have nothing important to say limit those calls to once a week or less, she can get into trouble for chatting on the phone during work hours.

or if you call during break you may intrude on her getting to know other people she works with

limit these calls, you are her husband, not her momma!