i myself when i look at a guy i notice if he cute right away but then i genuily get to know him and start to either like him for who he is or dislike him... i judge based on personality not looks and most men i know latley its all abou tthe look or about how they will look 20 years from now...
2006-06-16 02:32:22 · 16 answers · asked by pebbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion both appearance and character are very important in a relationship. For example a guy starts talking to a girl if he is attracted to her. There are men who wouldn't go out with an ugly girl even if they like her personality because they are affarid of what their friends would think. Without physical attractio sex fails and the relationship is over. However the relationship between two people is not all about sex, and when two persons have very different personalities and lifestyles it would be also very difficult for things to work out. Therefore it's best when you find a person that is beautiful both on the outside and on the inside (not necessarily a sex bomb).
2006-06-16 02:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Full Blown Rose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think some of it depends on maturity - I think the younger you are the more you pay attention to looks. Then as you get older, you kind of look at people with a little more open mindedness (or at least hopefully you do) - but it's a basic instinct to try to mate with the most attractive people that we can and it's not a crime to appreciate a good looking hottie now and then. I guess if you're looking, go with someone that makes you happy, because looks will fade, honey, looks will fade!!!
2006-06-16 02:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by headshrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a very fickle world we live in. Most people only notcie the outer beauty. I know lots of guys who are quite handsome but have the personality of a trout. where as myself am not great to look at but i know if girl gave me a chance i could make her happy and she would like me.
BTW i have had a girlfriend for 9 years and have 3 children so im not looking at the mo
2006-06-16 02:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by lee w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time looks is the 1st thing that attracts 1 person 2 another, but it's definitely not the most important thing, u could b with a beautiful woman, nice body and everyhting, but what good is a trophy wife if u can't trust her, at the end of the day, honesty, trust, and personality is the most important thing.
2006-06-16 02:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures. We notice appearance first. Of course, a woman's looks aren't everything, but it's definitely one of the initial factors in attraction.
With women, looks are also important, but not as important as it is for men. This is especially true as women mature. When they're young, they go for "cute guys", but later in life they're more interested in a man's confidence, his financial situation and his social standing.
As men mature, they still focus on a woman's looks. It's nature.
2006-06-16 02:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the biggest thing here is if you do not look good to begin with not many will give you the chance to see you on the inside.
so you can be a great person on the inside and a monster on the out but yet few will ever know.
2006-06-16 02:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I picked my wife because of three things. Her morals, she had one job in a bank for 13 years, and she'd recently lost a mass of weight- which I though took a massive amount of will power. But then I've a massive amount of will power too, so maybe like attracts like. And ok, there was physical attraction and the blonde hair and *massive* breasts didn't hurt.
2006-06-16 02:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by smile4763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time : outer beauty is matter but it has to match with great personality otherwise it wont be fun. I judge on personality but i cant ignore outer beauty, both are important to me.
2006-06-16 02:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by BelleVie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we're going to look at how attracted we are to them, that's what made us interested in the first place. But then you sholud get to know the person and their personality can make the most beautiful super model look ugly.
2006-06-16 02:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k believe me or nt,guys r for sure attracted to apparent beauty bt thts mere infatuation n is damn short lived.if a guy really lovs u its totally based on d type of a person he finds u n thts whts real n true lov.i m lucky in tht case, k even if they start some relation wid a gal they r attracted to physically,they r most likely to break away aftr nt likin d real person she is
2006-06-16 02:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by cravingbrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋