We have been dating for about a month. Really respectful, has an education, a job, nice guy. I just kind of put my hand there and there was not much. You never think that he is 6'5 and size 13 shoe. Should this change how feel about him? Should I care? Will this big a big problem one day? Please answer this a respectful as possible.Thank you. And no I am not a virgin and I have been with bigger.
2006-06-16 02:12:22 · 21 answers · asked by Nice girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question in itself has been around for many years. should size matter?
Honestly it shouldn't because nothing except sexual intercourse does it matter with.
I have heard so many things like no teenie weenies but then I heard I rather be tickled to death then stabbed to death.
Some women like their men hung like a donkey for bragging purposes my guys bigger than your guy but what does this really say? maybe it does not say such good things about her that she can take such a manhood means she is not so tight. But having a smaller tweekie you can brag on yourself saying I had to find a man who was smaller and below average because I am so tight.
Love and trust and compassion and even passion does not have a thing to do with the size of a mans joy stick. maybe he feel bad because he does not measure up in the locker room but perhaps this has made him more skillful in performing orally and fondling. which could say foreplay could become something to brag about.
I have asked women which do you perfer a more foreplay or more interaction durning intercourse 87% said more and better foreplay.
intercourse in itself on an average last 20 minutes at best and before anyone says well my man can keep it going for hours I wont deny some can but I am speaking average here. foreplay and I think most women will agree is about 1/4 that. I say better the percentage and make it 20/20 and bring the national average up.
But listen the size should not matter at all. if the guy listens to you and can make you laugh and is trying hard to be somebody don't kick him down but enjoy all the wonderful things the two of you can share.
2006-06-16 02:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
well honey its as big as u make it if u really like this dude it should not matter .But then again I can see where it can if u like sex an much as me I am a dude and like a well built lady .And I am rather big 4 my size and my shoe is onle 8 1/2 so go figer.Right ? IM me if u want to talk more ?
2006-06-16 02:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be a problem if you really care about him. Maybe he really has it packed in his undies. There are other ways and things to help in that department, just communicate and shop around in the novelty shops for fun things. Love him for who he is not what he has. Just think you could have a jobless critter, dumb as hell with 12 inches, but don't know how to use it. Now what good would that be. Maybe he can work wonders with his 4inches. Work with what you got honey.
2006-06-16 02:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Imustknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answering as respectful as possible to a disrespectful question...answer this...would it bother you if he was asking this same question about you because he questioned your chest size? If size matters to you, you should go find yourself a guy with something more suitable for you and sacrafice all the other great things you like about the guy you're with now.
2006-06-16 02:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by PMF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size DOES matter, however, if he is as respectful as you say, and is educated as well, he probably knows how to maneuver his "shortcomings" in a way that will satisfy the both of you....hang on to him, as you can see by some of the answers you read on this site, good men are hard to find.....
2006-06-16 04:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by kate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being silly by worrying about his equipment.
The finest most rarest guys are in fact the guys with small pistols.
The guys who are well endowed have a big penis and nothing more to offer. Personality goes a lot further than a huge erection.
2006-06-19 06:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by MR RUBBER GLOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure how old you are but - there are all types or equipment and some are growers. That is they seem small but when the action gets going they double in size. This you will not know though until you go there.
2006-06-16 02:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by skepticseeksmystic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the size of the wand, but the magic in it!
No, the size shouldn't make any difference. Try it before you decide to dump a seemingly decent guy because you think he is too small.
2006-06-16 02:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son's father was like that, but it didnt make a difference after a while. It still felt good and your body adapts to situations. Believe me , it will not make a difference in the future at all. I felt that way at first I went from huge to well, below average, and I was with him for 4 years. (And no that was not the reason for the breakup)
Good luck to you
2006-06-16 02:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Babygrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big argument as to whether size matters. If he is satisfying you then it doesn't matter, especially if you care for him, and he cares for you. If he isn't satisying you, maybe he can try in a different way, or maybe you'll have to do it for yourself.
Again, you have to decide what is most important to you. Weigh your pros and cons, and see where you stand.
2006-06-16 02:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by flhye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋