will i regret it if i have sex before marriage?

Question

i'm for sure not gonna marry the guy, and he's using a condom fo sho, so i won't get pregnant

Answer 1

It's a personal choice. I wouldn't regret it.

Answer 2

Sex and marriage are two different things?
Sex and marriage are integral part of each other?
Ever since man came to this planet this has been the cause and reason of probably all major events, the basic human relationship and how it is defined. Morality, ethics and religion revolve around this.
There are two possible things:
1. You have sex before marriage and you guys use protection and all that.
2. You refuse to indulge in sex before marriage. Rest is academic discussion which is not going to help. I would suggest don't go for it. There are no moral or religious obligations if you don't want to feel them. Lets see sex first, a 4-10 minute act of raging hormones which satisfy our basic human need like food and air. After the act of sex if there is no relationship a sudden vacant feeling ensues. Its intensity may vary but its always there. Its usually more in men than in women. Women tend to associate themselves after having sex. For them the body which has given their inner self an orgasm means more than just having diner. Men's nature is different. Are you prepared to divide yourself and later on not think about this incidence? Or considering your own mind set are you willing to keep on hiding it from your husband or any future relationship? If your mind says yes, its worth it. Go for it. Yes the world won't see you doing it but remember there is one thing called conscience and at some time or the other it might hurt you. Just make your you don't regret a momentary pleasure for a happy life.
Good luck and I hope you make the right choice.

Answer 3

it depends upon how moral you think you are. so many people just don't have sex before marriage because of religious reasons. this is a good thing, but you should really check in with your views on the issue. you have to trust whether or not you believe this person is worth giving up your virginity to. you also have to be able to judge how you will feel if you two don't end up staying together forever, because the possibility is highly likely, especially if you are both young. go with your own intuition on this one by spending a lot of time weighing your beliefs. no one else can tell you how you will feel and do not let others influence you in the decision. this is all your choice!

Answer 4

Well no not really. Some people regret it, but i don't really see what's to actually regret. Most people that get married now anyways have already had sex. I mean people, well the bible (religious people) and my mam says that your virginity is a gift to your husband, to know that you have been untouched in that area. But I am like, what kind of gift is that. Most of the time the man isn't even a virgin anyways. Why do you have to be his gift in that way. You being his wife is his gift. However, i still don't know. It depends on how you feel about it. Like right now me and my boyfriend have been talking about it, but i keep trying to say that i want to save myself for marriage. Then again i really don't want to. But there is only a few things that you regret about having sex before marriage is if you get pregnant, AIDs, HIV, you know those types of things. So RAP IT UP!!!!!! if you decide to before marriage.
HAVE A NICE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Reality is, now a days pre-marital sex is very common, and it's almost acceptable in the society speciaaly for men, although there are some who still believes in sex after marraiege but maybe 10 % out of 100. For me, it's not wrong if you love each other but if it's jusy for the sake of sex, then a didfferent story. And also make it sure it's safe specially you mentioned you are sure not to marry him. If this things will happen then it will be a big mess for you.

Play safe honey and don't overdue it, pre-marital sex is ok, but it's still sacred.

Answer 6

It will depend on your values and what you truly want for yourself! I don't know how old you are but from what i think perhaps you are not old enough (or ready emotionally for it)yet. If you are asking yourself if you will regret it...you probably will! It can be good to wait until you feel really ready for it and when you are with someone you feel really comfortable with and explain your feelings and fears. Don't do anything you are not sure of!!!
If sex before marriage is something you have doubts about you should perhaps wait...
Good luck and hope you can sort out your feelings!

Answer 7

I am 60 years of age and therefore having made most of the mistakes in marriage. Sexual compatibility is most important in marriage. You can not acquire a sexual appetite, and having different sexual drives is a tremendous problem.
I would never marry a woman I had not slept with, no more than I would buy a car I hadn't driven.

Answer 8

It depends on whether you really love the guy and he really loves you too. If you both love each other whether you have sex in or out of marriage the feeling will be sublime, can't be matched by anything else. However you have to take a concious, mature decision. If you have sex with your guy and (i hope not) you eventually leave each other, it would be more painful having had sex with him.

Answer 9

Depends on your moral belief system. If you have a hint of guilt or apprehension then I would say , Yes!, you will regret your decision. If you are open minded and the thought of giving up your virginity is okay, then you'll be fine with your decision.

Answer 10

i think u will because saving it until your honey moon night is a great way to begin a marriage with an act like that which is both a physical and emotional union of two people so i reckon it would mean more if you waited until u were married.. they way it was meant to be

Answer 11

Only you can answer this question. Me personally, I would NEVER marry someone I have not had sex with. It is possible to be incompatible sexually. I look at it like this-when I buy a new car, I test drive it, right. So why not test drive my man?