first one, two months. it was everything great, we saw almost everydays.he liked me as i liked him. Because I liked him too much, I started to feel insecure.everythin got weired. He felt tied down. we didnt work out.Once in a while he contacted me we hanged out(only one day). We did this like 5 times.He always says I'll call you, then he never called me. It's like every once in 3,4 months. so I cant forget him although I tried. he knows that I still have feeling to him.Then, this time, I havent seen him a half year, so i was about giving up on him. then we met again.I am sure we had a great time.this time he actually emailed and called me after that day, then we supposed to meet up.then he canceled it. If he knows that he is not going to see me, why he does this so many times.
It like messing around my brain.It so hurt me at the same time I cant forget him.so what's is the reason he dosent accept me? cuz of my pesonality, sex, looks? if he's not interested, Y he contacts me?
2006-06-16 00:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read between the lines... He obviously likes you, and can see himself in a relationship with you, but, I am sorry, you are in need of some help. This is not a healthy obsession, and trust me, he sees it. I am sure, by your information given, that his feelings of being tied down were not the only feelings.. how about overbearing? You scare him off. He cannot hang out with you, if you are constantly obsessing with him. Give it a rest. How about, the next time you see him, don't act desperate to get with him. Just say hi, and leave it at that, walk away, don't go running after him, slobbering, sobbing and begging for some attention.. have some respect for yourself!
2006-06-16 01:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Next Door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wish spending tym on sumone who doesn't wanna spend his time wid u.. I'm just outta a simliar 2 yr relationship.The guy says, "We've ne'er known each other"..It hurt badly.. Itz like..i still bear my feeling towards him..but when I really had a deep thought about it..i came to know..i was wasting my energy and health. I know, memories will still crowd upon you..But fight back,and make sure you win the battle. A guy who's not worth it will ne'er be worth in the future. Time and Money change people. Men just crave for personal satisfaction.It is a known truth. Don't be a doll anymore. Give respect to your own feelings. take care.. Think of somethin that will really make you happy. All these emotions are temporary..Good luck..!
2006-06-16 08:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by lemme help u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear,
i can understand the situation you r undergoing as i have undergone it many a times. So, why don't you speak to him properly and clear all your doubts. Both of you meet and you ask him whether he is serious about you and tell him all your feelings for him.
Try to observe his reaction towards you at that time. Tell him how much you love and care for him. whatever is in your minds for him just keep all in front of him and ask him his opinion.
Then, i am sure he will tell you the truth as to what exact feelings he has towards you. If he is still not clear and acts funny, then it is good for you to forget him as he is not a suitable guy for you.
May be he is just playing around with you for just time pass.
Dear, it is good for you to be very careful and take a decision on it, because it is a question of your life.
Be careful dear, there r too much of guys like that now, who r not clear about what they r doing.
And do not worry, if he is not there surely there will be one special made for you. Have patience and wait dear you will surely get your true love........................
All the best, take care, bye.
2006-06-16 08:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to keep on just in case he doesn't find anything better.
Some guys just like to keep girls wanting them and play with their minds making them think that they like them a lot then disappear. Also, he might just be having stuff come up and take care of it and since you're not his girlfriend he feels no obligation to keep your plans.
Don't sweat it, just let everything fall into place. Heck you might find someone new this summer.
2006-06-16 08:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen dear,,,1st of all,,,think about urself n make a decision whether u will go 4 him or not,,,see he is just ignoring you,,,the way he is using to ignore u ,makes u hurt,he has been already missused u & now he is trying to make u mad in his lie love,he is not thinking about you because he doesnt want to neither meet nor call u up,he knows that u cant forget him dats y he is making u feel his presence in ur heart even now u want to forget him but u did true love to him that why its really difficult to ur heart to forget him,,,,so plz dear dont think about him so much & jsut try to ignore that person,,,,dont read his mails & dont talk to him,,,just try to be happy & talk to ur best friends about other things,,,i m harry & i also have gone through this situation that why i m telling u ...just try to be happy,,, my yahoo id is pyar_vyar0072003 if u need a true friend then just msg me...
2006-06-16 08:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by harish007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crush
2006-06-16 07:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋