I'm 46, divorced, attractive, and confident in myself (sexually and otherwise). All the men I meet that are my age want girls in their 20s? I'm sure a guy in his 20s wouldn't want to go out with me. What's up with this?
2006-06-16 00:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by i'mjustsayin' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me love there are plenty of guys in there 20's who would like to go out with an experienced older woman, god it is like one of their biggest fantasies !!!
If you are attractive and confident then you will not have any problem finding someone, your divorce has probably knocked u for 6 as it did my mum.
And for those guys that ONLY go for younger girls they need to realise that those girls are probably more interested in money they need to get over there mid life crisis !
Age is nothin but a number love I promise the time will come again for you.
2006-06-16 01:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't you believe for a minute that younger guys wouldn't wan to go out with you. I know a lot of young guys that LOVE older women. The next time a young guy flirts with you, respond favorably, and you'll see what I'm talking about. As for guys your age wanting younger women, that's also not correct. You are in the prime of life right now. Put on something sexy tonight and go out.......you'll have guys all over you, of all ages. Smile, and be friendly, looking good, and smelling nice. You'll have more fun than you ever thought possible. Good Luck!
2006-06-16 07:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy in his 20's may not, but a guy in his 30's probably would (wink,wink). Since my divorce, I have found an attraction to older women, I think its because they know what they want and they don't play games. The guys that you are meeting are just looking for flings, they aren't looking for a true relationship anyway, you're probably better off if they aren't interested.. ... plus, older women make good lovers!!!!!
2006-06-16 07:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by JMinKY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....I'm 42 and I believe that most men go for younger girls to make them feel younger. A girl is more apt to believe the lies and is more impressionable than a woman closer to his own age. Younger girls havent experienced the things an older woman has, so therfore..she wouldnt necessarily know the tricks and lies of a man. But I think mostly..its about his ego........makes him look like the stud to his friends....and your right....20 some year olds do like going out with older women.....almost for the same sort of reasons. They can learn and experiment with someone who isnt afraid to let go and be themselves. If your comfortable with it...then go for it......you deserve to feel good about yourself too.
2006-06-16 07:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and go for it.You may be surprised how many of the young ones are willing to take a few lessons!.Men will always look at sexy,young women,It's just natural.Most older women will look at younger men in exactly the same way.Just do it!!.
2006-06-16 08:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mika K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is 50 and I'm 25 we were together for 4 years and I found out he cheated on me with a 22 year old. I think it makes them feel real or if they're insecure and worried about their image they do stupid things like that. I think it's mostly about insecurity. I have friends that definitely like to date older women maybe your not meeting them in the right place.
2006-06-16 08:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Asian*hunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes back to caveman thinking here..younger means better chance to spread healthy seedlings,to live on.young is just attractive to us we are born prewired with it.Not a choice.Also you need high social status as a man and this is one part of it. but I dont mind older chicks they do have alot to offer. Maybe try dressing younger?learn some youngin lingo?drive a nice car? pretend not to be smarter than the man your with?Most men can;t stand to be with a chick that is equal or smarter than them.(it hurts their pride and will ruin your social status in public places).there is a start.
2006-06-16 08:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. BIG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. I am sure you will find somebody. but why are you looking for someone younger in the first place.?
2006-06-16 07:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Arther D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, you just need to find one of those younger men yourself. And believe me they/we are out there.
2006-06-16 07:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by jedilogic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young body is attractive candy, yeah! But I prefer experiented women, 'cause they can give me more exiting sex than young babies.
2006-06-16 18:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by forester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋