2006-06-16 00:27:52 · 18 answers · asked by englands.glory 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of guys getting irate here! wonder why? cos guys just approach things differently is not neccessarily a bad thing ..just means we can have more fun teaching them IF their egos will let them be educated ..most guys do not like you to insinuate that they do not in fact know everything(?!)
2006-06-16 00:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Binky 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋
I'm a British woman (interestingly having lived here and in the USA I'd say Britain is more open minded on this) and I don't hold on to the old stereotype that women who enjoy sex as sex are wrong. To stereotype men as only having one side is incorrect BUT it is patronising and 'Victorian' to act like all of us women are just looking for a man to care for us ... and all the pleasure comes from the emotional side.
If that was the case rabbits wouldn't sell so well.
Stop crying and get out there girl. There is nothing wrong with YOU having fun without commitment.
by the way if you look needy/naive then the kind of man who will pick up on that will lie to fit your need and you'll get used.
2006-06-16 07:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by squeezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says they do necessarily? You're making a massive generalisation there. Why create a dichotomy between "sex" and "love-making" anyway? Aren't there actually many different ways of having sex? Putting it like that makes it sound as if there are only two: a glorified sacred act that has to be about love and a purely physical act. What about all the good stuff that doesn't rigidly fall into either category?
2006-06-16 07:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys think love making is just sex but there is a difference sex is purely physical and love making is with the heart, sou, and mind which most men don't have the IQ to know the difference.
2006-06-16 07:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brian T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't always confuse it, when they don't have feelings for the girl its just sex, if they actually have feelings for the woman (which is often not the case) than its love making
2006-06-16 07:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think the confuse the Sex and love making. I think as wemon we ejoy love makingm ore than just SEX but man enjoy SEX all types. I think they just enjoy carefree sex where they can have fun other than tring to set the mood to make love. Face it ladies were are hard to please. Also they do on special occasions "make love" when they know it is important to you.
2006-06-16 07:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by adrienne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the way the male brain thinks he can difference irate between sex and love a woman needs the emotional connection
2006-06-16 07:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men it is a physical outburst, but for women it is an emotional bonding. As long as men don't understand this simple concept, it is hell for both!!
2006-06-16 07:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by goldies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am a man and sure I do buy that point! As I see personally, sex is nothing but a tool to express your love and sure there are other ways too to do that!
Cheers!
2006-06-16 07:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by *darling*detective* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thiink u r the 1 of the vicitim hehehe...there is no diff b/w sex and love making.... just diff terminology used by women..like u....
2006-06-16 07:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by geeky_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋