What would u do if that happens..? Cause i love my girl.. although she broke off with me.. i still take her like my girl.. I've cried for days and beg her to take me back... telling her i've changed which indeed i have,but she still dont want to accept me back.. She keep saying no.. At first when i ask her if she still loves me,she say a little bit.. not as much as last time... But then after a few days i ask her again,she say no,i dont love u,and i dont like u... what should i do? I've done everything i can to get her back but she just seem to refuse to accept me back again... i really need help... cant live without her.. im damn serious... i've changed for her,i've quit smoking for her which is like i've been smoking for abt 5 years? she just dont trust me and she just dont want to give me a chance... we've been together for almost 11 month this month... but she broke off with me during the week of my b'dae... someone help me pls.. i want her back... i really do..
2006-06-16 00:11:43 · 16 answers · asked by prettyswirls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can help you but you gotta listen. first off, dont be so needy, nobody likes beggars. it will turn her off even more. act like you moved on and only talk to her occasionally. talk to other girls, tell her stories on how you met this girl, and so on. show her youre confident. act like you just wanna be friends now. she will realize she still wants you and will be jealous of the other girls. still dont fall for it, keep her wanting. when you and her are alone, make your move. your welcome.
2006-06-16 00:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by firestarter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this problem. Me & my soon to wife broke up for about 3 months. But as the time went be by we both realize how much we love each other than we sat down and talk about our problem now since we talk. We are back together now and trying to get marry soon. the old saying goes (if it was meant to be let her go and if she comes back then it was meant to be) from someone who's been there done that.
2006-06-16 00:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by dark_prince_mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on stop crying over spilled milk.Its painful when some one u love walks out on u but what can u do if she's said NO?Right now u are chasing wind,its too fast u cant catch it,all u can do is give it up and focus on other things.From awomans point of view when a man shows his weekness by crying it turns off woman.Focus on more developmental things and if this gal is yo's then she will come back.Good luck.
2006-06-16 00:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Isha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She has dumped you and stated the obvious. Save face. Where is your pride, self-respect, man-hood? You sound pathetic. I thought at first this was a needy female. You know how many HOT babes there are out there? You do not need her humility. Talk to an older dude and see if he can mentor you. Find yourself again and find that self respect you have misplaced.
2006-06-16 00:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and they are more fish in the sea. If the love is true it will come back. Don't tell her show, her that you have changed by action and not just words. When she sees that you have changed and the love is true she will return, but she may never return so you need to move on with your life.
2006-06-16 00:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brian T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on start dating other girls , hey you never know she might find you more desirable if someone Else was in the picture ( you don't what you have until it gone) and just maybe the new relationship will be better than your old relationship. but in any case you need to back off you are getting close to stalking her.
2006-06-16 00:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by MYRAJEAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u must gain her trust back then stop begging cause its not cool at all.she dont trust u for a reason and she left u for a reasin too so figure it out and change it.But yet u have to show her that u have changed...tc and gdluck...
2006-06-16 00:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard going through a break up. If she doesnt want you to get back together then their isnt a lot you can do. time is a great healer xxx
2006-06-16 00:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by char 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt want you back then I guess you'll have to move on. I'm sorry about what you are facing right now but thats just how it is.
2006-06-16 00:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you must move on. I know it hurts. But she doesn't want you anymore, plain and simple. Find another girl. No, she won't be like your last girl but it will be your first step. Be strong and you'll be fine.
2006-06-16 00:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋