2006-06-16 00:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by sania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes your husband will know about it unless he's an idiot. your virginity is the greatest gift you could ever give him. just something to think about.
2006-06-16 00:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by firestarter 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you getting married soon?are you just asking for future refrences?if your husband is a virgin he may not be aware that you are not do you really want to take that chance and if you are engaged now and asking this then maybe you have no business getting married at all unless you plan on having premarital sex with your future husband then i say forget it and if it,s with him then naturally he will know,lol.but all kidding aside if you are still a virgin then stay that way cause it's not a bad thing and you will be a hell of a prize for some lucky young man as most girls these days give it away like it's nothing and wonder why they can't get a decent man not to many guys can say they married a virgin and the same for the girls,but the choice is yours dear i hope you make the right one.good luck
2006-06-16 00:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by PURPLEANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have any Obligation to a Hypothetical Future Husband.
If you are Married. you should figure out this one for yourself.
Are you religious? if you are, keep what you believe in. if you are not, find out what will make you have a long term happiness. and believe in that.
forci
Plus not many people marry virgins. its rare even in the most religious religions. (i Used to be Mormon even Most are not Virgins. )
You need to decide for yourself what you want to do. there will be guys wanting you to do it. and there will be people trying to shame you to not do it. Sex is a VERY HUMAN THING in fact it is central to every living thing. But you probabbly have a LONG time to enjoy it. Don't be in a hurry. and don't do it or not do it for anybody else. You will feel confortable when it is time. you will also want to do it. then you will be ready.
if you do decide that you want to.. Just know that most likely your relationship with whoever it is will end.
Make sure you have a Condom.
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2006-06-16 00:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Talis Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him. I don't condone premarital sex. Although at one time I was involved in it, I learned that each time you give yourself to someone, they walk away with a piece of you, and you walk away with a piece of them. Whether that be good, or bad, you have that possession. When you meet the next person, you and all of the company you have accumulated in other relationships come with you. I encourage singles to be celibate not because I was, but I know the pitfalls of not being that way.
2006-06-16 00:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure but it might probably be obvious specially if u really feel guilty about it....But i dont think that would really matter cause as long as the guy likes u, u dont have to worry about anything. U can be open about this or if u just cant make sure u'll not feel awkward about it ok....
2006-06-16 00:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by jomar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have anal sex ur hubby will never no bout it but if u have virginal sex yes he will come to know bout it but u can tell him that u r not a virgin because u had an accident when u were a kid while driving a bycycle or find out another excuse!
2006-06-16 00:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baibie the only way you can hide is
(a) build your own hymen or
(b) pray that you get a really stupid husband.
bottom line is its a two way traffic :-if u do it he will know and if u dont do it he will know ,only problem is ,do u reall think he will be a virgin and worth your wait?????
2006-06-16 00:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will definitely know it but you can give him a reason that the vangulactis had broken while you were involved in sports activities. try it its a nice xcuse...
2006-06-16 00:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Roni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you planning on having "premarital" sex with your husband-to-be? What do you want to know?
2006-06-16 00:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're planning on cheating...
2006-06-16 00:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyed_roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋