i've been with a guy on and off for several months, he tells me he loves me to pieces but he then says he doesnt wanna b with me right now. does this mean he has found sumone else or he doesnt see us going newhere or sumthing? Help!!
2006-06-15 23:56:44 · 24 answers · asked by chalky666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he wants to keep his options open. Keep yours open too and things will probably fall into place as they should! :-)
2006-06-16 00:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by CJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There may be a chance that he's emotions are just all over the place at the moment, most people get scared when they find out that they are really falling for someone. But then again on the other hand he may be messing with your head, the only way to get the correct answer is by talking to him and getting him to explain how he feels. Good Luck ;D
2006-06-16 07:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, wake up! You are the back up. Anytime something he really wants falls through... you're considered "the next best thing." You aren't number one in his eyes and probably never will be. Move on. Next time he says "I want to get back with you." You tell him, "Too bad you had so many chances and now I've got something better." You will have something better even if it's not another person. You'll have assurance that you don't remain in a vicious cycle that's not healthy for you.
2006-06-16 07:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may feel that your relationship is going too deep too fast and he actually only wants a casual thing for whatever reason. If this isn't what you want he's giving you the chance to get out of it. Love has many definitions and you probably think something different to him about this. you're being let down gently don't wait for him to hit you with something harder. Save yourself and your dignity and move on with grace right now.
2006-06-16 08:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he loves you just not in love big difference you know or maybe he's afraid of his feelings and committment or maybe he wants to keep you hanging while he plays the field ,knowing you'll be waiting till he makes a decision.advice tell him you love him too but you can not wait till he decides what he wants but you will be there for him if he needs you but however you will be seeing other guys cause no sense in sitting home alone every weekend the right guy could still be out there just wating for you to find him good luck in whatever you decide
2006-06-16 07:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by PURPLEANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont read to much into it. I had exactly the same thing happen to me and now I am married to him with a child! Hes prob just scared of commitment! I went on holiday with my guy then when we returned he realised how much he missed me when we werent together!!!!
2006-06-16 07:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he wants all the priviliges of being your boyfriend with none of the responsibilities. Consider yourself free to see other guys, but also free to spend time with this guy now and then.
2006-06-16 07:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he doesn't love you. Sometimes when we are overcome with emotional feelings, we mistake them for love. Love suffers long, is not jealous, etc. love never fails. Love is not unsure about if it is love or not. Love is not selfish. When you truly love someone, you wake and sleep cherishing the thought of when you will see them again. When someone says they are not sure they want to be with you, that is a sure sign that their love is not genuine.
2006-06-16 07:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you love someone.all you want is to be with him or her all the time when you find love you should hold on to it..
but you never know the curcumstances that he is facing maybe he has problems.
but anyway you should end it untill. he is sure about what he wants.
don't be easy on him... it's not always what he wants.. he has to know that it's not easy to get you back whenever he wants..
good luck
2006-06-16 07:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your great in bed and when he wants to be able to keep getting it from you and sleep with who he chooses . Its a power game and your losing
2006-06-16 07:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
means he expects u to dish out or else -time to move on and find another boyfriend that will respect you for what you are a young lady.
2006-06-16 07:00:10 · answer #11 · answered by missourigal_194420002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋