2006-06-15 23:52:54 · 33 answers · asked by dollythesheep100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may sound like I am kidding but I assure you I am not. Boyfriends can be pushy and demanding. some females are tough and stand their ground but some give in afraid of losing their bo. Here is the kicker most guys want but unaware of what you are going to have to deal with. guys watch porn and surf it on the net they see stuff like anal and think it is cool and want to try. but they do not think how this might be from the female side of things.
it is simple the females on this site who have tried it, well most of them say it hurts like hell, so I would say they know and would not tell you a lie. most guys may tell you you should try and some say if you love him. I say you need to have a little self love here and think about yourself. here is what I suggest you do. Sit your bo down and set some rules like if I say stop we stop. then tell him that you need him to get hard so you can take measurements. after you do that go find a strapon that is the same size or as close as you can to match his own. tell him that trying new things is cool when you love and trust someone but before he enters your little forbidden zone that you want him to try it first because he needs to know when you say stop just what you are meaning for real. unless your boyfriend has been enjoying anal penetration in the past I am willing to bet your not going to get it in far before he stops you and changes his mind about anal.
and any of you guys that may read this I suggest you go do a bit of research on this subject before offering any advice because this is something that can have some really bad effects in someones life. sex is suppose to be fun and enjoyable. I can tell you if you read enough in medical books about some of the things we put our bodies through, you learn that a lot of suffering can be avoided.
I hope you choose wisely and your happy in the end and please be safe.
2006-06-16 00:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Thats really a choice for you to choose. However, if you say you dont wan't to and he cannot respect that, then by all means he doesn't even deserve to be with you. Don't let your choice become influenced because of peer pressure, and especially if it comes down to.. "What will people think of me?" Because if you and he doesn't tell, then no one will think anything of you. But if you are ready for that step, then go for it. Just make sure its protected none the less. I'm not here to promote premarital sex in any way, but if anything happens, always use protection.
2006-06-15 23:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i been rape. and i am a male. so before you think of letting him use you fingers or something small at first and work you way to bigger things. is you like the feeling then go for it. if not don't. anal sex is not for everybody.
2006-06-15 23:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f wants anal , go ahead give it to him but use a small strap on at first untill he get's use to it !
2006-06-16 00:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a choice only YOU can make. i suggest you check out this web site ( No It's not porn) www.sfsi.org/answers/anal.html
If you were going to go on trip, Would you do research first?
If you choose not to and he has a problem wit hit, then DUMP his but, You deserve better.
2006-06-16 00:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by h w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine the last time you had to strain for a really big s**t and then imagine the same feeling going in instead of out...then answer your own question!
2006-06-15 23:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by soapybubbles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should - obviously most of the replies have been very much what the inexperienced think it would be like but in reality it is probably more exiting and fulfilling that you imagine!
2006-06-17 00:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by NiceguyNastysex 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should let him, but be careful not to poo while doing anal
2006-06-15 23:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by lizzzypinky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that u have enough contraceptives ,,,, In this u are not afraid to get pregnant .If u are compatible to him and love each other , then go for it ...
Just make sure to use Contraceptives ...
2006-06-15 23:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ready for a world of hurt.
2006-06-15 23:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋