question about my mom?

Question

my mom is the type of person who gets wht she wants yesterday she and i went to a shoe shop and i wanted the long go go boots she bought it for my sis its ok with me but when i want somthing she is like chosing for me everything she does that to sis to but my sis has her money she buys things but me my mom choses wht i should eat,wear,buy she always wants it her way wht do i do?

frist i talked about it she didnt listen second my sis doesnt give me money because she needs it third and the rule thing im 21 and i can chose wht i want fourth i cant do whtever she wants me to do i told her but didnt listen so i said "PLEASE STOP CHOSEING THINGS FOR ME"

Answer 1

I am afraid you will just have to deal with this until you are old enough to earn your own money and buy the stuff you want. I know it doesn't seem fair to you, but she must have her reasons for doing what she is doing.

Answer 2

Honistly i think that you should in a nice way talk to your mum about it im sure if your mum new how this made you feel she would probably say that you have it all wrong and she is probably looking out for you in a good way a lot of problem start from the smallest things and end up big over what was really nothing so my advice is comunication before it afects your relationship in a bad way

Answer 3

talk you chest out to her.make her understand how you feel about that issue.if you don`t then she will assume that you like the whole idea of things being chosen for you.tell her you don`t like the wholr idea,if she gives the chance then be very careful on how you choose ur stuff coz she`ll have a closer look at you.buy things that make you look decent and presentable not the opposite.wish you luck

Answer 4

look it really depends how old you are,and that you are
still living at home.
I found a great job at 18 ,moved out at 21,and had control
of my own life,as long as you are under your parents roof
they will control what you wear and what you buy,that;s only
natural,your mom might be P#issing you off,but she is only
doing what she thinks is best for you,at this time...believe me
it;s a hard road out there,and you have to work every minute of every day,to have fun and exsist.

let your mom have her way for now,you;ll need her help,once your out on your own.

Answer 5

I think you should talk about this to your mother. She, being your mom will obviously listen. Keep yourself cool and talk politely. Tell het what you think and your concerns about the differential treatment. This I think is the best way out. If you have any problem with your mom, it is better that she hears it from you instead from someone else.

Take Care.

Answer 6

k, if you are 21, and your mom offers to buy something for you that you don't want, just refuse it. Tell her no, you don't want it. How hard is that? If you are 21 you must be working, so tell your mom that if she won't buy what you want instead of what she chooses that you will buy it yourself.

Answer 7

CRY, WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. Look kid it's time you realized that you Mom sets the rules and does what she wants to do. When you grow up and have your own home then you set the rules and do what you want to do.

Till then just go with the flow

Answer 8

Tell her u would want to make ur own choices.This in no way means to hurt her or degrade her,but for ur personal growth.Tell her u want to learn from ur own mistakes,if any.

Answer 9

i think u must leave it to thr way it is goin. thier may be u r not understanding her or may be ur taking it to different way or may be ur r right abt ur mother . just leave it to time. or if u want some more suggestion from then reply me .and we can also chat online

Answer 10

Oblige ur mother. Why u r troubling yourself in ur mind ?