I broke up with my ex boyfriend and well he kinda stalked me for a bit. he stoped and then today he called me someone gave him my cellphone no. and he said that he wanted to be friends which that's a no and also he was going to the edge fest the same concert i was going too... i was thinking about not going cause he might threaten guys and ruin my fun ya know... so i asked alot of people, they all told me just go and forget about him and dont freak out if he's there... i never see my ex and the day i was talking about i prolly wouldnt see him anywayz at the concert i saw him... do you think that's a sign that i shouldnt go?
2006-06-15 22:58:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If this ex boyfriend is capable of stalking you and has gone to the trouble of finding out your cellphone number, I would defintely feel threatened by him. If I were you, I would take this as a sign to stay home, because he is posing a threat not only to yourself, but also to those who will be in your company. This is divine intervention sending you a clear signal that your safety and that of others is at risk.
2006-06-15 23:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by maryvaudry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy a break, talk to him. But use some discernment, if he's threatening YOU then run, and call the cops. if he's threatening other guys, that means he is having a really hard time with the break up, give him a break, at least talk to him one more time. I'm sure he feels horrible, maybe its something he did or didnt do, maybe its nothing, maybe he just wasnt right for you. Whatever the reason, just let him know. Draw the line, but dont slit his throat in the process. good luck........poor guy.
2006-06-16 06:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by kk_jediknight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your ex will be there and he might cause trouble, I wouldn't go. This will give him a sign that you are not interested and maybe he will leave you alone. I have many ex's and I try not to go to places where I think they "might" be. Now that I'm married, the last thing I'd want is to run into someone from my past.
2006-06-16 08:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he might threaten a guy your with after you have broken up with him, he sounds like the rowdy type. Lots of fans go to concerts, and you most likely will not see him.
2006-06-16 08:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by ianthra2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your concert. Do not let him intimidate you from living your life to the fullest. The sooner he sees you've moved on, the sooner he will get the message and move on himself. Have fun! :-)
2006-06-16 06:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sandie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a concert...chances are there will be so many people there you won't see him anyways.
2006-06-16 07:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go and have fun .if you do run into him ignor him.dont let anyone keep you from doing what you want to do.
2006-06-16 06:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by angeltinkbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋