My fiance is going through a really tough time with issues concerning his father - very serious. He is very low and has admitted maybe depressed. He is always so tired and subdued. I have always been there for him as support and just leave him to have his own thoughts about it. Our love making has gone down to just once a week as he is so troubled. He even admitted last night that when he is at work with his mates that he feels he can't mix the same with them or have a laugh - he is finding it even more difficult as time goes on. I have needs too but also understand he is very sad just now. I told him how I feel and he held me tight and kissed me. What else can I do? He says he will go to the Dr in his own time. I'm at my wits end. Please don't tell me to find someone else as he is the one for me and I love him. When he didn't have all this going on we had the most wonderful relationship. Please help?!?
2006-06-15 21:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Kuntal P 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Dear friend, its times like these that test the true equation in ur relationship. I guess the best option would be to hold on and be there for him. see he derives lot of strength from u and the fact that u are there itself means a lot of him. The tough times will pass and I am sure that soon u both will be having a rocking together again.
" The heart knows the answer to all of the questions that perplex the mind."
Keep the faith and all the best
2006-06-15 21:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Most of the time I tell people to get over it when they are depressed. But this time I have to say.. Doctor now! This is intruding on every aspect of his life and yours . That is a sign of serious problems. Start dealing with it now before it really gets out of control.
2006-06-16 04:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by claymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some important factors would include you and your fiance's ages, how long you've been together, what issues are there with the father... you might have recieved more helpful and informed responses if you had included this information.
2006-06-16 05:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him call/write in to Tom Leykis. or just dump him for being a fairy beeyotch about stuff and get a real man or start dykin' out
2006-06-16 04:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very depressed try to talk him into getting some help quickly.
2006-06-16 04:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is be there for him and help him through the bad times, things will go right in the end.
2006-06-16 04:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by mags_brfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call Tom Leykis
2006-06-16 04:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Stoned Bosco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋