continued...like me ill be embarresed!!and were good friends so if i ask him out and he dosent like me it will probly ruin our friend ship...what do i do?
2006-06-15 21:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by xxx3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's true that if you don't ask, you will always wonder "what if?"
You don't have to be embarrassed. It's all about your attitude. If you look at as a chance to improve your self confidence, it doesn't have to be a negative thing IF he says no. If he says no, tell yourself it was worth the try and there's nothing to be embarrassed about!
It is a gamble though, about your friendship. But that's the risk we all take. I have known people that admitted their feelings to a friend, the friend didn't return the feelings, but even now they are still good friends.
You know. Why don't you just do some flirty things? Touch his hand or arm when you're laughing. Always sit next to him when you can. Always face your whole body toward him when you're talking to him or he's talking to you. Compliment him. If he flirts back, you will know that he's atleast interested.
2006-06-15 21:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Elisa-chan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have been in that situation a few times and i didnt ask but later on i had asked the people what they would have done most of them said they would have gone out with me. you just have to go for it and hope for the best. otherwise u will always wounder "What if...?"
2006-06-16 04:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Ask him out! Imean all he can say is no and itll be awkard for a bit but then things will be good. Take the risk!
2006-06-16 04:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and get your friends to suss out who he likes. Or maybe even you. He maybe will suspect something but he wont know who theyre asking for. Or maybe even if you ask other guys and girls who they like and then ask him, it wont seem as obvious.
2006-06-16 04:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by #.::PenguiN::.# 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to do something relaxing. A game, hike, bike ride,
2006-06-16 04:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by drgnfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.. Most of time it will work out unless you ask him in really freaky way
2006-06-16 04:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by yook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see..you NOT going out with him now...you ask him out, he sez no...your not going out with him later..Wow that is embarrassing..Oh geez tell him you want to go out...he will 'jump on' the Chance......
2006-06-16 04:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask.. or always wonder. Forever.
2006-06-16 04:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by claymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.
2006-06-16 04:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by BJJBOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋