I'm getting a divorce. The girls are with their father and I 50/50. When they are with him he lets them sleep with him all week. They are 12 yrs. I have spoken with their Father. He is not having the girls sleep in their own beds. Called Child Protective Services. They can't do anything without an aligation.
2006-06-15 21:14:08 · 11 answers · asked by drgnfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
okay...guess i'm addressing the same question again! i gotta say the same thing....
clearly talkin with your husband aint gonna work.....you HAVE TO TALK TO YOUR DAUGHTERS!!!!!!!!! okay????????
tell them its not normal for girls of their age to sleep with their fathers....ask them to talk to their friends ab it....they are just too innocent and polite to revolt against their father......but you have to tell them n make them understand.....
if it comes to it, contact some women's organization.....dont hesitate....
any untoward incident at this age can ruin their happiness forever.....
take care......talk to your daughters....again n again n again if necessary....
all the best....n yea, i appreciate your decision to move away from your husband you are not happy with.....
k....wish you all the best with yr life....n to your daughters too...
take care
2006-06-15 21:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with Child Protective Services or the local Police. See if they or someone they can recommend has a video for kid regarding child preditors. So that they can be knowledgeable and tell dad or anyone else NO and that it is OK to tell mom or someone that they trust that something has happened.
Good Luck
2006-06-15 21:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mitch D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find out if the girls have been messed with, to know whether you need to worry or not at this time, then make a appointment with the girls doctor, say it is for a checkup to the girls, and have them checked to see if they have been messed with in that way. If they have, then give a copy of the records to the proper authorities, but keep the original yourself. Then they would have to listen to you.
2006-06-22 15:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by ancer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friendly to him , And make sure u have some hidden cameras that u have own . And go inside to there house and attahed secretly ur hidden camera....In this case u will find out what his true motive ...
2006-06-16 00:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts damn serious.. u go and kick his *** 4 doing tht
u have do do whatever u can... or try 2 talk to ur girls.. tell them what he is.. nd tell them 2 stay far from him.... thts not right... do what ever u want.. take hepl 4rm frndz 2 stop tht.. i actually dont no the whole situation so cant tell more
2006-06-15 21:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by hitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an allegation! YOU are the one to protect them! Keep on C.P.C. until they listen! What do your girls say? Has he touched them inappropriately? I don't understand...If you are sure something is going on, Why would you let your girls anywhere near him?
2006-06-15 21:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would post one of those registered sex offender signs in the front yard of his house, then all of the neighbors would be watching him closely then you might be able to get an aligation to get your children away from the perv
2006-06-15 21:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by deathdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys named Colt and Smith and Wesson that could help.
2006-06-15 21:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by eggman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him take the girls and talk to a lawyer
2006-06-15 21:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by RCPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girls not to sleep with him
2006-06-16 05:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋