I am busy with school and work but I love her more than anything in this world, I'm just really clueless when it comes to doing special things.
2006-06-15 20:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by SliperySlope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously you ar very busy so when you can: get her cute presents, take her out dinning and dancing, cuddle her all the time and tell her that she s your one and only! she ll be in heaven.
2006-06-15 20:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
After sex, when you tell her to get up and make you a sandwich, ask her to cut it in half so you can share it with her. When the two of you are done with this intimate meal, when she goes back downstairs to clean the dishes, turn over on your stomach when you go to sleep so you won't snore. Now if that isn't showing her how much you love her then nothing will!
Seriously, romance and love should be a natural process. If she's willing to marry you, you must be doing something right. What ever you are doing now, make sure you're still doing 10 years from now. She's marrying you because of who and how you are with her during pre-marriage. Don't make the mistake of forgetting that while you're married which is what most couples do and can't figure out why they don't love each other anymore. Best of luck to you.
2006-06-16 03:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for every girl - which makes your job VERY difficult. Try different things and see how she reacts.
If she's a classic knight-in-shining-armor type, she'll want you to offer to carry her heavy packages and open doors for her.
If she's not used to feeling beautiful, notice and comment when she does something different to her hair, polishes her toenails or wears a different perfume.
Does she want you to just make an effort, no matter what it is? Surprises work best on this type of girl, sneak a love note into her wallet for her to find later, or have dinner waiting for her when she gets home.
Does she feel underappreciated? Thank her for all she does for you - even the emotional stuff like "Thank you for being patient and understanding that I am working hard and going to school so we can have a better life. I love that you see our future and support me during this". or "thank you for washing my socks". Whatever she does.
Most importantly, listen, be observant and keep doing whatever makes her get the same look on her face as when you asked her to marry you.
2006-06-16 03:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers...dinner...outing are good but all are superficial things...
First of all the way you are concerned for her and really care for her she already must be knowing..and feeling on the top of the world...Cuz women always know what their husbands feel for them...thats why if you don't really love and then send flowers and arrange dinner it won't make any difference...but if you have true feelings for her and if she really loves you too then she will be able to understand you condition....The best thing you can do to her is whatever time you get with her... talk to her..more off listen to her..what she wants to say...and as one of the guys said have a cozy(home/outing) meal..........................................the only thing a woman desires truely from her man is that he be sincere to her...if she gets that she needs no flowers chocolates to make her feel on the top of the world
2006-06-20 03:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by suhani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do something on the order of what I did for my gf last week.....it was her birthday on Thursday, so on Monday she received a dozen red roses at work. on Tuesday she received two boxes of her favorite chocolates from the Rocky Mountain Chocolate factory. on Wednesday she received 13 pair of her favorite thong panties from Fredricks of Hollywood (one in every color), and when the girls from the office took her out for drinks after work-I was working-I called and ordered her an appletini and had it delivered to her table with an apology for not being able to be there....and then to seal the deal I sent her another dozen roses-one of each color they had- this Thursday with a note that said "Happy Week After your Birthday".......She thinks I created the world................
2006-06-16 03:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers to her at work for her co-workers to see. Put on the card that she needs to go to some store after work where you've already bought her a gift and left a note to go to another place to get another gift with a card telling her to come to your place, where you've set up a romantic bedroom with candles burning, with flower pedals leading to the room where she'll find you waiting for her with a single red rose. (phew!)
Good Luck Bra!
Aloha!
2006-06-16 03:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to diner or whatever you would like. Maybe go sit outside and look at the stars and show her how u love her. That would be great to me.
2006-06-16 03:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her swome flowers
Keep a small note to say I love you under her pillow
Give her a gift ( jewelry )
Call her from work just to say I love you
2006-06-16 03:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by shareek_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, what you feel about her & give beautiful words to your feeling, try to develop good understanding between each other, and try to be honest with her.
2006-06-16 03:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by naeem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
candels, back massage, dinner, a picnic, roses, a gift, TELL HER EVERY DAY! there now you know. and help out around the house lol
2006-06-16 03:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by kidmccloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋