2006-06-15 20:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by munns_dandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love and hate are passionate emotions. When love is broken, the pendulum swings the opposite way. I bet that if that person undid what caused your hate, you would love that person with the equal passion that you currently hate him/her with.
2006-06-15 20:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by HL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change. We all gradually become different people as we grow older and have more experiences. As we experience life, we learn new things and adjust our attitudes and behavior gradually along with them. Sometimes, we turn into radically different people. You may have heard "He/she's not the man I married!" or "I don't know him/her anymore!" It's because either our own tastes change or the other person changes, or sometimes even both.
Also, when we're infatuated with someone, and that spark wears off, sometimes we find out that we're not as "in love" with that person as we thought. Then, if a bad break up occurs, things can get ugly. People say or do things to hurt each other and then end up hating each other.
Then there's the event where people do unforgiveable acts (cheating, lying, etc.) and OF COURSE that changes your opinion of your partner. This often ends in hatred.
Feelings change according to the situation. And the situation is changing daily.
2006-06-16 03:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa-chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is easy the person could have done something to break the others heart. or worse. it is not like it is like that all the time but most yes because people don't always stay true and that is the main reason that some one could go from loving some one to hateing them. hope i helped.
2006-06-16 04:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Nikkey A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are like cards they have backs on them , meaning if you knew how a person would turn out before you get with them, the chances are you would pass them up.
2006-06-16 03:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you did, to make him/her hate you. It's kind of like an automatic emotion................
Like if you were dating someone, and the two of you were in love...........One day you came home, and found your partner making out with 4 other people in bed.........I don't condone it, but I could understand that kind of hate.
2006-06-16 03:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Spongebob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts like pins into you to hate someone you once loved so much. who ever they may be, dad, boy friend, husband
2006-06-16 03:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by merk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its just life and its little dilemma's but it hapens not to wory it will pass u just have to search within ur self wat u want from the person its not easy but its worth the try if u want to make it work......find a way to live with wat u hate about the person no one is perfect,r u???
2006-06-16 03:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by blaxigal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your feeling are hurt, its common to lash back at the person hurting you
2006-06-16 03:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE OF THE WAY ,ONE PERSON TREATED THE OTHER .
2006-06-16 03:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋