I met this woman online and she gave me her number after only the second email! I hardly said anything to her! I called her for the first time and we talked for 3 hours! She kept laughing and talking even though I know I didn't say much. She wants to have dinner with me not coffee for the first meeting. Should I be worried or am I reading too much into this?
2006-06-15 20:08:55 · 21 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be careful. you've heard of guys who meet women like this and then attack them, you're not safe just because she's a woman. meet in a public place and make sure your friends know where you are. and don't go to her house the first time or invite her to yours.
2006-06-15 20:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably has eight other guys she is talking to as well. It's probably not that big a deal to her, so I don't think you have anything to worry about at this point. She seems to think you two clicked, and maybe she's just feeling you out. She may decide after dinner that you are not her type and you will not hear from her again. She is obviously comfortable with this and must have done it before, otherwise I doubt she would have given you her number so quickly and nonchalantly.
Now I'm only saying all this because I have a friend who meets many guys online and talks to them on the phone. Sometimes they can talk for hours. They get along great, they meet for dinner or coffee or whatever (don't worry, I don't think dinner is worse), and many times it's just a friendly meeting and nothing more. I'm only going by what I have seen with my friend, so, of course I could be way off. I, personally, think she's nuts and there's no way I could do that. But, some people are just very comfortable and outgoing and can talk to anybody.
So anyway, at this point, don't read too much into it. Go to dinner, have fun, see how it goes, take it from there. You are likely worrying for no reason.
Who knows, you guys may have absolutely nothing to talk about in person and the night will be very short and quiet and that'll be it. :) Enjoy.
2006-06-16 03:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by ambie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. She wanted to hear your voice after only the second e-mail, and then (oh my God) you talked on the phone for 3 hours where you apparently didn't say much, except she was laughing and talking. And now (say it ain't no thing) she wants to have dinner with you instead of coffee. This is worse than I ever did imagine it could be. Are you 10?
Wake up and splash a little cold water in your face. Wasn't the point of meeting someone on line, giving her your phone number, and agreeing to meet her what you're afraid is now happening? Go meet her, you big sissy, over some dinner. Do it dutch if you're afraid she'll read too much into it. And be a man.
2006-06-16 03:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be really careful here... she sounds a little "off" if you know what I mean...
Go to dinner, but make sure it's in a public place - and have a buddy ready to call you on your cell phone, 20-30 mins into the dinner, to give you a way out if you need one!
Good Luck, Bra!
ALoha!
2006-06-16 03:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman may be really ugly and in need of attention of any kind. Sounds really desperate to me. I would be careful. Also, you might want to bring a paper bag along with you when you meet her for dinner. Good Luck
2006-06-16 03:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a little cautious. She sounds like she just wants someone to be around. Watch out, I have had a few like this. She might be a stalker. Slow down and get to know her more before you meet. Good Luck.
2006-06-16 03:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jody O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, you don't know her, and she doesn't know you. Go to dinner with her but have your guard up and be friends first before making any move toward a relationship...it will only get complicated if you jump at it to fast
2006-06-16 03:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds dodgy. Like an instant stalker. Not to mention desperate.
Be careful and change your phone number.
2006-06-16 03:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does seem a bit desperate.. but she could be worth it but try meeting in a public place
2006-06-16 03:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reading toooo much into it right now. Just have dinner with her, and see if there's something more than just friendship.
2006-06-16 03:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋