GUYS: What is important to you looks or personality? What "types" of women do you like. I mean body size

Question

In my opninon I think our society is too judgemental on looks. I do agree though that some looks do matter ( you have to be attracted to them, or it won't work) but I think guys should give all types of women a chance. Personality, counts way more!!

In my experinces, I feel like I could never get a boyfriend. Why? because all I have heard was " your not my type" .."I'm not interested".. "can we have sex with no strings attached!" It just makes me feel like I am a waste or something. I don't find myself unattractive or butt gross ugly!! I just don't get it. It'd be nice to find a DECENT man who likes me for who I am inside and out. * sad face*! I am 20 yrs old by the way.

Thanks guys! I appreciate your feedback. Sorry maybe I just worded the question wrong. To me it just seems guys are all into looks or maybe just the ones I came across, who knows. I don't think I am ugly but I do admit I'm not no size 5 or whatever. I ain't huge or anything but I ain't thin either. But yeah I agree..LOL I seen some pretty butt *** ugly women myself and suprisingly enough they looked as if they had bf/gf and some women bigger then me have dudes. I just don't get it. It confuses the **** out of me. Maybe I come on to strong but I don't know how. I just be myself and if they don't like me for who I am then to bad. I don't know

Answer 1

The attitude is was makes the look of any person.....If they have a positive attitude then that will show their beauty from the inside out. Thus, making that person the most beautiful person in your eyes and that's all that should matter.....

Answer 2

Sorry to hear that you aren't having much luck in the romance department, but this is a free society where we have the right to choose who we want to be with. I have no reason to lie, and will admit that I want to be with someone I am attracted to, but if she lacks personality then I have no reason to want to be there. When people ask what's more important, looks or personality, I think its an unfair question, because most of want both. Why guys don't seem to be attracted to you? I couldn't answer that without knowing anything about you. But in general, guys, especially when they are younger, (around your age) aren't really that picky. Maybe you should take a close look at yourself, inside and out and try to figure out what it is about you that is keeping them at bay. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but if you're having trouble finding someone who is attracted to you, then I would say there are other issues you aren't sharing with us. Seriously, I mean, I have seen some really, (using your words) butt ugly gals with personalities that would scare the boogey man away and they seemed to get hooked up. Sorry I can't be much help to you, but you don't really have enough information for one to make an educated guess. Good luck.

Answer 3

I'm picky. A type may not be only blonde or a girl with nice feet. That's not a type, that's a fetish.
I myself like a girl who is both intelligent and outgoing, which is a very hard combination to find. I lead a very active lifestyle so I need a girl who is at least a little bit athletic.I have very different interest so finding a open minded girl is very important. Only then will I look into personality. even girls who people say will be a good match for me I haven't really gotten along with. Just be your self and meet lots of people.

Answer 4

I agree with you.

Most people are average looking so the question is really moot.
Look around, most couples are just average looking.

Everyone likes looking at attractive people.

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Well knowing that you are only 20 yrs old explains alot.
Guys in that age range aren't really able to have a committed relationship.

Girls at your age are prime targets for sex seekers.
Im just being real. If you aren't very attractive then that goes double because the guy that comes on to you, especially older guys are surely only lookin to hit it an quit.

At this point in life you should be looking for an education, not a boyfriend.

Answer 5

Personality is most important because a woman can be a foxy lady but have a ugly attitude. I like all types of women as long as they have a brain inside the head thats on their shoulder.

Answer 6

Again, both. But Yankee trash got the nail on the head. And u think at 20 u would've found "him". Babe u haven't even discovered yourself. Be patient, "he" will come along.

Love isn't finding the right person, but being the right person.

The right person is u, discover yourself, be yourself & love it. Only then can u attract ur Mr Right. And your personalities will keep u guys together.

Answer 7

Listennnnn.... Looks are to attract your mate to you. Personality and connection is wat keeps you guys together. I think a long lasting relationshi should have both. If you guy are not attracted to each other you are going to cheat i hate to say. Attraction won't fill a conversation. What i mean is you have to have good conversation. In fact my longest relationship was with a female who i could talk to for hours. So those who think its all about looks you're wrong.(but don't be mad someone had to be wrong)

Answer 8

Initially looks are most important. That is what attracts a guy. But if the personality is dull, her looks take a backseat. Many women are beautiful by personality alone. They can be so vibrant, that it outshines looks.

Answer 9

Its personality that counts becuse u donot have the control of the reality "How u look like" but u can develop ur personality and this is what really counts in relationship.

Answer 10

hi,don't worry.first of all always remain cool & kalm,feel urself as u r the best.boy's like a girl with a s**** figure,but u can also impress them by ur talks,nature,altitude(not bad),i m sure a sweet grl like u can easily found a boy when right time comes.if any boy ignore u just consider him as he doesn't worth time spending with u.bye cutie.