My bf and i dont use condoms cause im on birth control, but i fould some in his little backpack he carries, why is he doing this and should i be worried, should i confont him? if so what should i say, please help! thanks
2006-06-15 19:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by crysthy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should ask him.
Personally, I'm against premarital sex, since I think it takes away from a relationship and the actual sanctity of marriage.
At the least, I'd never have sex with someone i didn't intend to marry.
But I guess I'm off subject.
Yes, you should ask, if you don't trust him, just ask, you will be glad you did either way.
It's your body, not his, you have the right to know if he is having affairs behind your back.
2006-06-15 19:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about most guys, but I pretty much forget what I've got inside of old bags. I've carried stuff around for a long time and then cleaned out backpacks and gym bags and laughed at myself because I didn't need like 1/4 of the stuff in the bag.
2006-06-15 19:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he pulls the condom out of the wallet for sex with you, don't be too demanding. in case you stay mutually, and the condoms are in the nightstand drawer (or you do not use condoms), then be demanding - really with a shady answer. P.S. - a condom in the wallet, kept in the pocket would get warmth sufficient to break down the latex somewhat, only sufficient to no longer provide the protection that you imagine that you have become.... (for pregnenacy & STD's)
2016-10-14 05:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by valda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listennnnn.....to ya boy. With all thats going on in the world, you should be happy. (Let me finish) Because he is smart if anything happens he wants to be ready. If you two ever got to the point of no return its better to be safe than sorry. So don't sweat it, if he had a box and he is missing some then you might wanna talk to him. But maybe he gave his boy some or maybe his boy gave him those. So why not ask him about it. I think you might wanna use those rubbers unless you guy looking at marriage
2006-06-15 19:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about why he needs condoms if you don't use them together. He has no reason to be carrying around condoms if he is faithful to you and you are on birth control. You should let him know you know and ask him to be truthful with you.
2006-06-15 19:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your boyfriend has had them since before you got together.. if not maybe he's cheating on you.. but i'd confront him about it.. and if he looks up and to the left when he's talking to you, more than likely he's lying.. so look at his eyes when you confront him, so yeah gotta do it in person when you do this..
and i hate condoms.. but some girls just dont do good on birth control
2006-06-15 19:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by onetomgreenshowfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be to worried they have probably been there before you even got together. and birth control only protects agaist getting pregnat, make sure you don't catch anything else. But if you are worried and you cant get it out of your mind ask him bout it. it will get everything cleared up.
2006-06-15 19:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is not that serious,bcoz it may be acceideintally he kept condom in his pocket, but some wt diff to know, u may consern his most best frd to find the wrt thing wts going on
2006-06-15 19:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by sanj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be asking him about it. It could be that they have been there for a long time or it could be that hes sleeping around. So ask him!
2006-06-15 19:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but your mans cheating take this advice im a man
2006-06-15 19:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by hunglo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋