What is going on!?

Question

Ive been with my bf for about 7 months. We used to see each other everyday. Now that Ive started training for 3 months, we have drifted apart but recently during my last month of training, his sister called me informing me that his ex-gf still calls and that he has a special name for her number called 'ziggy'. A few months ago, I was looking thru his phone and saw this msg in his sent box which ended with 'the way I feel about you' I questioned him and he said its an old friend from an out of state university and that he was talking bout ME and it was a typo. So fine, i believed him as before, I never suspected anything, until the sister told me that its the ex-gf and she has been calling him. Apart form that, he has been neglecting me due to his work problems. Is it normal for guys to neglect their gf's when they are faced with problems? Whenever I try to be sweet and cuddle, he says he's not in the mood. Whats going on!

Answer 1

HE IS CHEATING

Answer 2

His mind might just be on his job or other problems... like you said. When faced with issues that you can't control, the human responce is to shut down and shut out. Though if it is his ex calling and leaving messages, you need to get him to talk about it. He might be in a confusing situation... meaning his feelings for the both of you. Be aware that he might not only have you in mind at this time. Either way, you need to get him to talk about it. Being forceful and hateful about it will get you no where except a swift kick out the door... talk to him calmly like a friend would, cause that is who you need to be at this time.

Answer 3

Here is what you need to do, if you are serious about losing weight and keeping it off. Eat 6 small meals a day about every 4 hours. Here what that will do for you, your metabolism will increase (i.e. Loose weight) and you will have more engry. If you go on a diet and eat less, your metabolism will slow down and store to fat. That is why diets dont work. Only the size of your fist, carbs (examples:baked potato, pasta, oatmeal, beans, corn, melon, apples, fat free yogurt, whole wheat breads)in one and protien (examples:chicken breast, swordfish, shrimp, turkey breast) in the other. You can also eat vegetables and salads with any meal, they dont have none or little fat). 30min cardo exercise every day. Any of these(examples: walking, jogging, swimming,running, biking, ect), Monday cardo, tues upper body (arms: curls, tricep extensions,pull ups, front press)(abdominals: leg pull crunch, leg raises), (chest: bench press, butterfly, pullover)(shoulders: front press, arm pullover, cross county skier machine)(back:seated row, lat pull downs, back extension)(YOU DONT HAVE TO DO IN ONE DAY, mix it up) wed cardo, thurs lower body (legs: leg pull,leg press, squats, lounges) fri cardo, sat upper. Sunday eat anything you want and dont exercising, you do this on sunday so your body doesnt go into starvation mode. YOU NEED TO TAKE SUNDAY OFF. If you stilck with this you will have a great body. also drink aleast 8oz of water daily! Stay away from Mcdonals, Wendys, ect because there is nothing good for you on the menu's even the salads are bad (beaon bits, cheeze, dressing, ect) Good Luck :)

Answer 4

it sound like he going through a lot, right now, so give him his
space, but it also could be that he cheating with the ex. but i
would talk to him. could be nothing, could be something.

Answer 5

drop him. as i said before, do not allow a man to treat you this way. there are so many more out there waiting to treat you right.

Answer 6

I think he has a case of he doesn't know who he wants to be with.

Answer 7

I don't know sorry but how about you ask him what is going on

Answer 8

beats me but i feel ya, men are confusing