Is it a certain "look" she has, her smile, her sense of humor?
Tell me some of the things you really find attractive.
2006-06-15 18:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see hundreds of women every day.
They come in so many shapes and sizes.....so many ages and looks and colors and "styles".
I find myself most drawn to a sort of "comfort level" that I feel when I talk with them or otherwise interact with them.
If they are TOO "gorgeous" I feel intimidated and I don't feel comfortable. If they have a look or style that is un-appealing to me I tend to "overlook" some of their otherwise fine characteristics.
When I notice that I am really attracted to someone it usually begins as a feeling of SURPRISE......and acute interest. Most of the little "hooks" that women use today look so fake........too much make-up, tattoos, strange uncomfortable-looking shoes/clothes ..........weird hair........
So being/looking TOO noticeable is a turn-off, to me.
But when I see a certain softness and then a cute smile, THAT will get my attention. If their fashion sense is keen enough to INCLUDE their clothes looking comfortable to THEM......that's another plus.
OK.....so they have my attention and I think they are attractive. I bet I'm in line with a bunch of other guys on that.
But what attracts ME to THEM is their attraction to ME. If they laugh at my silly/stupid attempts to engage with them and seem interested in a story I'm fidgeting around to tell them......... THAT draws me in, BIG time.
So it's their interest in ME that I see as the biggest turn-on. It doesn't have to be about sex/lust, love or whatever. When I feel like I can show a woman a nice time and she responds to politeness (and some humor thrown in for spice).........when she understands what's important to me and asks question about what she DOESN"T understand or agree with.......when she seems like an independent thinker and shows common sense and a keen wit.......when she reveals her compassion and altruism, her basic sobriety and responsibility........she becomes more attractive.
When every day is a "fresh look" at an old friend......that's the ultimate.
2006-06-16 16:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personality. Honesty. Values.
2006-06-16 01:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sense of humor is a big factor. being healthy is a plus
2006-06-17 03:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Persona of course..1st
2nd Scent and Features
2006-06-16 03:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just that feeling I get from a girl, knowing she wont be like the last one that I had, and **** me over, bull**** me all the time, and the lack of the use of narcotics and alcohol abuse helps
2006-06-16 01:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
75% looks, 25% personality is a good general rule
2006-06-16 01:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Einsteininium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diffinitely her laugh...her eyes...her looks are not always the most important thing..but it helps...but diffinitely her laugh...
r u from beckly or mann wv??? if so do you know anyone with the last name of walls??? just curious! im not trying to hit on u or anything...i have family up there...
2006-06-17 01:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
physically beautiful is easly seen.. but most important is the character or the attitudes.. I like beautiful face with good character..
2006-06-16 01:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by rookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% mentallity & 10% looks
2006-06-16 01:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like a girl who has a good attiude and who takes care of her self, clean teeth are very important.
2006-06-16 01:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋