Ok...I have a buddy in my building. He's a decent fellow, kinda plain-looking, dirt-poor, but really smart....problem is, he's also really lonely. And he has a weird hobby...since he's too shy to get himself a real-life, face-to-face girlfriend (and he is straight as far as I know), he's got this hobby, or obsession...he dreams of ways to find and seduce a willing woman...so he can turn her into a living doll. Like a living Barbie, or china doll, or something. Yes, he's on meds and got help for this, it seems mostly a harmless fantasy life he has going....but is there anything I can do to help him out before he buys a LabCoat?
2006-06-15 18:14:01 · 6 answers · asked by Bradley P 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Update: I kinda had a weak answer or two, along the lines of "leave him alone" or "hire a masseuse and have her dress like a Bratz doll for him", but I was hoping for something better. He seems to be able to find folks to goof around with online, but not in the real. For those who don't know, this Mad Scientist is a really nice, but lonely older guy in my building, and He's slightly lost it (he's gotten help for it and is mainly harmless). He wants to find a willing woman and make a living doll of her, as in a living Barbie or something....weird as hell, yes, I know. I've also been doing searches on this and it is *rare* as all hell too apparently. Keep trying folks, I sure am, I want to make sure my buddy is ok.
2006-06-16 15:14:17 · update #1
Final update: I guess it was going to happen sooner or later, but...I got busted elsewhere on Yahoo Answers. See, I pulled the lamest old trick in the book, the "I have this friend...." trick. And I am so sorry. See, *I'm* the Mad Scientist I was asking about....I didn't want to lie, but I knew if I admitted things right off, nobody would give me the time of day, they'd think I was a psycho or something. Which I am not, the rest of the details are true...I have got help, am harmless, and so on. All I was trying to do was what everyone else here was doing...trying to find some more answers to my questions that I didn't already know about. I am just sorry that I did things in such a lame, roundabout way. I do appreciate your time and efforts though, thank you, and please forgive me my bit of lameness....
2006-06-17 20:36:58 · update #2
tell him to go to
realdoll.com they have these dolls that look real and he can make her do what he likes with out hurting anyone...only problem is they are like $7000.00...but hey over the years a real girl will be a lot more expensive...they look so real,it's trippy...
2006-06-15 18:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by crystal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you taking this in my opinion? the guy is pissed off because he's busy and he misplaces issues and at the same time as the tiniest element is going incorrect, it ought to derail his time table for the completed day because his day is scheduled minute through minute and its very intense rigidity. He has no outlet for this frustration, so he yells. it isn't a own attack on you. Does he call absolutely everyone names? Does he inform you you're stupid? If he calls you names or tells you you're stupid, you've the right to say, quietly, i'm no longer stupid, Mr. D., i am going to shelter your difficulty without delay yet I wil no longer allow you to to call me names. He would cool down in case you assert that to him quietly and frivolously and proceed to be professional. do no longer ignore that he's someone and he's handling overwhelming rigidity. do no longer ignore that its his frustration on the circumstances that are bothering him, its no longer own. try treating him like a chum it truly is having a foul day. "Oh, i'm so sorry, Mr. D! allow me see if i am going to get that caller decrease back for you, ok?" it truly is all he needs, and what he needs. positioned on your enormous lady panties and comprehend that the position of work isn't an section to be coddled, and act like an human being. Its no longer all about you.
2016-11-14 20:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obvioulsy desperate for female company. And it is nice of you to be concerned. I would say maybe he needs to find a girl who shares his interests. A fantasy life can only take you so far. He needs to go on a few dates with girls who are a little off themselves. Everyone is seeking acceptance. I'd try to help him find a date and keep a cautious eye on his actions.
2006-06-15 18:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dress up 4 him and let him go crazy
2006-06-15 18:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by mk320gti 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone!
2006-06-16 11:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is so odd, i have no idea to respond to that. i dunno, take him out or something!
2006-06-15 18:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by sball124 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋